Maybe that was what being together with someone really meant. It meant seeing past the idealization you had of them, embracing their flaws and fears, helping them to overcome them, waiting for them if they were not ready. Maybe being in love didn’t mean finding the perfect person, it meant it was worth sticking with an imperfect one.Gaia B. Amman
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When we expect our relationship to be perfect and ideal, we often overlook the real person and their flaws. Sometimes someone will present us with a perfect image of them and we accept that fantasy without even questioning it. There is no room for growth in that kind of relationship. It is difficult to grow when we are constantly comparing ourselves to the unrealistic expectations of the other person. When you see all of the good qualities in someone, it can be difficult to see all of their faults and flaws.
Source: Sexos: The Tragicomic Adventure Of An Italian Surviving The First Time
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