100 Quotes About Unrequited

Unrequited love is a classic romantic dilemma that is as old as time itself. But we’ve all been there — we’ve felt the pain and know the heartache. Even though we may understand it, we still can’t help but wonder: What happens when you’re with someone and they don’t return your feelings? Does it really hurt or does it just feel that way? We’ve gathered some of the best unrequited quotes to help you understand what it feels like to be in love without receiving that reciprocated affection.

I wondered what happened when you offered yourself to someone,...
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I wondered what happened when you offered yourself to someone, and they opened you, only to discover you were not the gift they expected and they had to smile and nod and say thank you all the same. Jodi Picoult
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Sometimes a woman's love of being loved gets the better of her conscience, and though she is agonized at the thought of treating a man cruelly, she encourages him to love her while she doesn't love him at all. Then, when she sees him suffering, her remorse sets in, and she does what she can to repair the wrong. Thomas Hardy
Your memory feels like home to me. So whenever my...
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Your memory feels like home to me. So whenever my mind wanders, it always finds it’s way back to you. Ranata Suzuki
Never stop believing that your dreams are eternal.
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Never stop believing that your dreams are eternal. Truth Devour
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Witch Baby wanted to ask Ping how to find her Jah-Love angel. She knew Raphael was not him, even though Raphael had the right eyes and smile and name. She knew how he looked--the angel in her dream--but she didn't know how to find him. Should she roller-skate through the streets in the evenings when the streetlights flicker on? Should she stow away to Jamaica on a cruise ship and search for him in the rain forests and along the beaches? Would he come to her? Was he waiting, dreaming of her in the same way she waited and dreamed?. Francesca Lia Block
Wolves mated for life. Where was he? Where was the...
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Wolves mated for life. Where was he? Where was the echo to her howl, her mate? Was there no other lone wolf, searching the hills for her? Andrea Hurst
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…the sad part is, that I will probably end up loving you without you for much longer than I loved you when I knew you. Some people might find that strange. But the truth of it is that the amount of love you feel for someone and the impact they have on you as a person, is in no way relative to the amount of time you have known them. Ranata Suzuki
There is an ocean of silence between us… and I...
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There is an ocean of silence between us… and I am drowning in it. Ranata Suzuki
I had someone once who made every day mean something....
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I had someone once who made every day mean something. And now…. I am lost…. And nothing means anything anymore. Ranata Suzuki
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It’s painful, loving someone from afar. Watching them — from the outside. The once familiar elements of their life reduced to nothing more than occasional mentions in conversations and faces changing in photographs….. They exist to you now as nothing more than living proof that something can still hurt you … with no contact at all. Ranata Suzuki
If you cannot hold me in your arms, then hold...
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If you cannot hold me in your arms, then hold my memory in high regard. And if I cannot be in your life, then at least let me live in your heart. Ranata Suzuki
I miss that feeling of connection. Knowing he was out...
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I miss that feeling of connection. Knowing he was out there somewhere thinking about me at the same time I was thinking about him. Ranata Suzuki
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When you experience loss, people say you’ll move through the 5 stages of grief…. Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance….. What they don’t tell you is that you’ll cycle through them all every day. Ranata Suzuki
The last time I felt alive — I was looking...
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The last time I felt alive — I was looking into your eyes. Breathing your air…. touching your skin…… Saying goodbye…. The last time I felt alive…. I was dying. Ranata Suzuki
He was both everything I could ever want… And nothing...
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He was both everything I could ever want… And nothing I could ever have… Ranata Suzuki
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I think perhaps I will always hold a candle for you — even until it burns my hand. And when the light has long since gone …. I will be there in the darkness holding what remains, quite simply because I cannot let go. Ranata Suzuki
Though these words will never find you, I hope that...
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Though these words will never find you, I hope that you knew I was thinking of you today….. and that I was wishing you every happiness. Love Always, The girl you loved once. Ranata Suzuki
I have poured my heart out ….And now I am...
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I have poured my heart out ….And now I am empty. Ranata Suzuki
The only place I ever felt at home was with...
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The only place I ever felt at home was with you. There isn’t a place for me anywhere anymore… I’ve been evicted. Ranata Suzuki
I would have followed you to hell and back... if...
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I would have followed you to hell and back... if only you'd lead me back. Ranata Suzuki
I raised you so high that every other man on...
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I raised you so high that every other man on earth is now doomed to live in your shadow. Ranata Suzuki
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Every quote, every book, every film seemed to suggest that ‘one day’ someone would come into my life and love me with an intensity and a passion I had never experienced before. And to their credit they were right; It all came and went so fast it really did feel as if it were just ‘one day’.... Ranata Suzuki
He looked at me like I was the stars when...
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He looked at me like I was the stars when all I’d ever felt like was the dark nothingness between them. Ranata Suzuki
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It’s the intricate details you miss the most. For me, it’s the soft lines around the eyes when he smiles… Or that look he gave me sometimes that I cannot begin to describe - but I would know it if I saw it again. It was the look that gave him away. I’d know that look anywhere… It used to be my everything. Ranata Suzuki
Like so many others my story begins with that same...
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Like so many others my story begins with that same old line…. ‘So anyway, there was this guy….’ Until one day…. there wasn’t. And nothing was ever the same after that…. Ranata Suzuki
Though life has fated that we never cross paths again,...
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Though life has fated that we never cross paths again, don’t ever feel alone. For we are parallel …. and I will always be by your side. Ranata Suzuki
Though it’s reasons to burn may vary... you are always...
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Though it’s reasons to burn may vary... you are always the fuel of my fire. Ranata Suzuki
It’s difficult for me to imagine the rest of my...
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It’s difficult for me to imagine the rest of my life without you. But I suppose I don’t have to imagine it... I just have to live it Ranata Suzuki
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It’s times like this…. when it’s over a year later and I’m still crying over you that I want to turn to you and say: See…. This is why I asked you never to kiss me. Ranata Suzuki
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My heart’s been empty since you left - but still I refuse to put up a vacancy sign. I’m just not ready for anybody else to move in yet. Ranata Suzuki
I write what I love. I will not stop —...
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I write what I love. I will not stop — even when my hand hurts….…. because I cannot stop — even though my heart hurts…. Ranata Suzuki
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I’d never dreamed anybody could love me the way he did. And even when he proved it to me time and again — I still could hardly believe it was true. Ranata Suzuki
It’s funny how we say a person ‘made’ us when...
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It’s funny how we say a person ‘made’ us when they actually broke us. Sort of like how I say ‘funny’... but I actually mean sad. Ranata Suzuki
How I wish I could undo it all … take...
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How I wish I could undo it all … take it all back… All those years I spent unhappy with him …. when I should have been looking for you. Ranata Suzuki
In a way, it was the same as any normal...
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In a way, it was the same as any normal break up. You took what was yours …. and I kept what I’d had from before we were together… You took my heart …. and I had nothing… Ranata Suzuki
They say “Follow your heart”….…. But I can’t follow you...
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They say “Follow your heart”….…. But I can’t follow you where you’re going… Ranata Suzuki
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They say the truth hurts. And these words hurt more than any I have ever written. But they are the truth — The cold, hard, undeniable truth. Not letting go doesn’t keep him with you. It’s still over. He’s still gone.… And nothing will ever change that. Ranata Suzuki
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Perhaps I was easier to shake off for you because you’re such a together person. I was just an extra layer on the outside… like a blanket you could shrug off and feel just the same…. except maybe a little colder…. But I was always a broken person that was haphazardly held together by little more than my own strength. And so you just seeped in the cracks and mingled with my insides until you became an inseparable part of me. And as painful as that is, it still kind of warms me to know I will always carry a part of you with me. Ranata Suzuki
It is the deepest of wrongs I am driven to...
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It is the deepest of wrongs I am driven to write…. And losing you was one of them. Ranata Suzuki
Your smile and your laughter lit my whole world.
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Your smile and your laughter lit my whole world. Ranata Suzuki
I don’t think you ever really understood….…. All the love...
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I don’t think you ever really understood….…. All the love I had in the world went to you. Ranata Suzuki
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How many times did we pass each other before we met? If only I’d known…. I would have searched for you endlessly. If only I’d found you before it was already too late. Ranata Suzuki
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When I was with him suddenly I wasn’t this broken person anymore. I was just me. I was whole again. I was just a person — like everyone else. Ranata Suzuki
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With you in my life I felt like I could conquer anything. It was as if I was on top of the world and even the stars themselves were just within my grasp. But without you …. even getting through the day is hard. Ranata Suzuki
I need to stop running back to you in my...
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I need to stop running back to you in my mind all the time. Ranata Suzuki
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Some people will hate you for not loving them. Mokokoma Mokhonoana
We are way less likely to love someone just because...
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We are way less likely to love someone just because they love us than we are to hate someone just because they hate us. Mokokoma Mokhonoana
Our parting was like a stalemate…. Neither of us won....
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Our parting was like a stalemate…. Neither of us won. Yet both of us lost. And worse still … that unshakable feeling that nothing was ever really finished. Ranata Suzuki
Though I never really had you….… to me you will...
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Though I never really had you….… to me you will always be the one that got away. Ranata Suzuki
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You’re everything to me. But at best, I’m just a memory to you. Ranata Suzuki
A kiss….….. is just a kiss…. Until it’s all you...
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A kiss….….. is just a kiss…. Until it’s all you reminisce.( Then the memory becomes your most treasured possession.) Ranata Suzuki
There is something strangely ecstatic, oddly fascinating and infinitely magnetic...
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There is something strangely ecstatic, oddly fascinating and infinitely magnetic about unrequited love. Arshpreet Kaur
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You can miss places. You can miss people. Just know that what you’re really missing is the way things were. And even if you could go there again…. see them again…. you can’t go back. They’re not the same. You’re not the same. The loss of them changed you. Ranata Suzuki
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If you’re searching for a quote that puts your feelings into words — you won’t find it. You can learn every language and read every word ever written — but you’ll never find what’s in your heart. How can you? He has it. Ranata Suzuki
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I didn’t love you to seek revenge. I didn’t love you out of loneliness or unhappiness. I didn’t love you for any of the misguided reasons that time might convince you I did. I just loved you because you’re you. Ranata Suzuki
It hurts that I was just one page in the...
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It hurts that I was just one page in the book of your life… But what hurts more is knowing you’ll revise that chapter someday….….. and you’ll erase me completely. Ranata Suzuki
I try to do something positive — I socialise more…...
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I try to do something positive — I socialise more… But deep down I know the truth. An entire world of people can never replace the one that I’ve lost. Ranata Suzuki
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It’s just never going to get any easier is it. It’s never going away, this missing you. It’s going to become a sadness I incorporate into myself — along with all the other sadnesses — and quietly carry around with me forever… Ranata Suzuki
For you are you, and I am I, and once...
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For you are you, and I am I, and once we were we… but as long as I exist and so do you — know that I will always love you. Ranata Suzuki
I still think of you every day. But I’m trying...
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I still think of you every day. But I’m trying not to let it hurt me with the same intensity that it used to. Ranata Suzuki
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There’s only ever been one person I’ve looked at and thought…‘ I could quite easily spend the entire rest of my life with that man’. And sooner or later I need to accept that he’s spending it with somebody else. Ranata Suzuki
How do you love someone and just… walk away? Just...
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How do you love someone and just… walk away? Just like that. You just, go on as normal…. You get up, get dressed, go to work… How can you do that? How can you be okay with that? Ranata Suzuki
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It didn’t hurt me. Not “hurt”. Hurt is a four letter word. It’s short, almost cute sounding. Aawwww, did that hurt? No. It didn’t hurt. Destroyed, Obliterated, Desecrated, Annihilated, Demolished, Shattered, or Demoralised maybe… But no. It didn’t hurt me. It didn’t “hurt” me at all. Ranata Suzuki
You made me feel worthwhile…. like for once it mattered...
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You made me feel worthwhile…. like for once it mattered if I was here or not because I actually meant something to someone…. because I meant something to you. I miss that feeling. Ranata Suzuki
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Deep down, I think everybody wants to be ‘the one’ to someone. I don’t know if I’ve ever been that person to anyone else — but I do know you are that person to me. You are the one. The only one. And you always will be. Ranata Suzuki
But he knew she was a star, and he, only...
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But he knew she was a star, and he, only human. He was never meant to reach the stars - he could only admire them from afar. Timothy Joshua
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There is always the risk: something is good and good and good and good, and then all at once it gets awkward. All at once, she sees you looking at her, and then she doesn't want to joke around with you anymore, because she doesn't want to seem flirty, because she doesn't want you to think she likes you. It’s such a disaster, whenever, in the course of human relationships, someone begins to chisel away at the wall of separation between friendship and kissing. Breaking down that wall is the kind of story that might have a happy middle– oh, look, we broke down this wall, I’m going to look at you like a girl and you’re going to look at me like a boy and we’re going to play a fun game called Can I Put My Hand There What About There What About There. And sometimes that happy middle looks so great that you can convince yourself that it’s not the middle but will last forever. John Green
I HOLDIf I could have had him, I could have...
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I HOLDIf I could have had him, I could have let himgo. But withoutthe having there was nothing–so to the nothing Ihold. Coco J. Ginger
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A POCKET-SIZED GIRLHe keeps me in his pocket for a rainy day; he swears I'm not an object as he yo-yo's me away. A friend is what we'll call it, but my friend, he does not know, each time it rains I love him– so to his pocket, I must go. He thinks he's being clever, but I am not a fool;his love ain't worth a penny, so to my heart I must be cruel. Coco J. Ginger
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MY MOONI'll always wonder what time it is there; if you're dreaming, or awake. My moon is your sun; my darkness, your light. I'm in the future, you'd jokingly say. And I know where you are, because I'm watching you from the past. Coco J. Ginger
Unrequited love is a billion times less intolerable than unrequited...
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Unrequited love is a billion times less intolerable than unrequited hate. Mokokoma Mokhonoana
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Those were the three words seldom asked to her. Yet, she knew they hold a healing power in them; For they bring a million thoughts to the mind and more to the soul; For the answer is far deeper than what is simply said on the face. She understood, so she asked him what was seldom asked to her, " How are you? Sanhita Baruah
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Love without conditions, restrictions, or the expectation of being loved in return. Kamand Kojouri
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Three years later and I’m still writing about you. I don’t know if that says more about you or I. Dominic Riccitello
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What's the matter?" you asked, seizing an idea. "Did I burst your balloon - destroy the fantasy?" I struggled for a way to answer this without my clothes.... Well his was very cruel, but loving you'd become a full-time job and I wasn't ready to be unemployed. Chris Kraus
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You've got the wrong girl."" On the contrary.." the voice murmured, "I've got exactly the girl I want." Her body turned to ice. Her mind fought for calm. There were people only yards away, yet she was alone.. "You're bleeding." Lips closed over hers. A kiss so passionate that time faded and stopped.. so passionate, it sucked her breath away.. Searing heat swept through her- pain and pleasure throbbing through her veins. With a helpless moan, she leaned into him and realized with a shock the kiss had ended. Richie Tankersley Cusick
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One suffers in silence so long as one has the strength and when that strength fails one speaks without measuring one's words much. Unknown
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I'd rather be not the light in your life The bright day might make me obscure I'd rather be the cold darkness For it remains, unseen, uncertain and unsure Sanhita Baruah
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The heart aches through nights–the broken places of neglect John Geddes
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Everybody wants their own little place in the world. And maybe mine is here… Loving you from a distance… Ranata Suzuki
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Do you ever get the feeling that when you show someone your affection for them, you are assaulting them? Like you should probably leave them alone? Your affection, no matter how sincere, does not necessarily mean a damn thing to the person you are giving it to. Love can corner you. When you intrude on someone with your affection, you might find yourself trying to knock a strong door down with your shoulder. Either you break the door or you break yourself. Something almost always gets broken. In my mind it runs like this: I’m going to like you, whether you like it or not. I’ll wear you down until you relent and swallow this big lie I have for you. Don’t move. Don’t live. I love you. . Henry Rollins
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I want to feel intoxicated from inhaling the scent of you. Truth Devour
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Distance may be the segregator but our thoughts and dreams are what keep us together. Truth Devour
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Your love is poetry in perpetual motion capturing my heart with centrifugal force. Truth Devour
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You and I will have our forever. Truth Devour
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Every one needs someone and there is someone for everyone. Truth Devour
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Contained within the breadth of my heart where you belong unto me and I unto you. Truth Devour
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To know true love, even though it was impossible to keep, had finally cracked her heart open enough to let someone else in. Andrea Hurst
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Like a white knight in a station wagon, he drove out of her life. Andrea Hurst
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I see you from afar–fragile and shy as a star gleaming through a cloudy rift John Geddes
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February 2009 January 4. January 4. January 4. I rubbed the paper on my red calendar. I cried into the little box, into the last day we had sex. I was a tornado. I puked hurricanes. I was Jodi Arias. There were no more tears for him. Swirling eddies of vodka, pills, fattening food, and tears. Vortexes corralled other vortexes. They joined forces with the eyes of other storms far out into the Gulf, and Atlantic, and castrated my heart first, then everything below the neck. Fuck the heart; my brain was mauled into mush. He didn’t have a heart–and possibly, neither did I. The heart had nothing to do with a whirlpool of circles and left and rights I navigated. Christy Heron
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Dare to live the fairytale. Truth Devour
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You were a luminescent star in the darkened sky that became my universe. Truth Devour
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I want you to make a habit of wanting me. Truth Devour
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All I have ever wanted, needed, dreamed and desired is contained within you. Truth Devour
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Love is indiscriminate in the path it takes to find you. Truth Devour
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The mysteries I desired to learn of heaven and earth and all that is between could only be taught by experiencing you. Truth Devour
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Live within and without your core of being. Truth Devour
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You are so close I want to breath you in. Truth Devour
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She felt tears slip from beneath her lashes, no matter how she tried to blink them back. Her heart was ablaze. It seemed that her entire life had led to this man, this moment of unexpressed love. Lisa Kleypas