5 Quotes & Sayings By Rebecca Raisin

Rebecca Raisin is a best-selling author of fiction and nonfiction, and a sought-after speaker and keynote speaker at conferences and events. She is the author of the bestselling Woven (August 2012), which was an Amazon.com Editors' Choice and a finalist for the 2012 PEN/Ackerly Prize; the HarperCollins-published memoir, The Truth About Us: A Memoir of Family (December 2009); the nonfiction works That's What I Say: Life Lessons from My Mother, A Lifetime of Love (October 2013) and Listen Act Woman: How to Get What You Want in Your Life (February 2014). Raisin's work has been featured in numerous publications including "The New York Times", "The Washington Post", "USA Today", "Elle" magazine, "Cosmopolitan" magazine, "Ladies Home Journal" magazine, "Vogue" magazine, "Marie Claire" magazine, "Glamour" magazine, "Women's Health Magazine", and more. She is also a contributing editor for Women's Health UK Read more

Raisin lives in New York City with her husband, writer/producer Michael J. McManus.

1
Some days, my life flashes before me in the blink of an eye, until I get to the scenes I wish I could change, and they play over again and again, until I can't see straight. Promise me though, you'll stop pouring every ounce of yourself into work. Save a part of your life for something else. Rebecca Raisin
2
I chose to remain single because I couldn't commit to one person. But it isn't easy. There are plenty of times when I wonder if I made a huge mistake with some of the men I've loved and let go. Maybe I would have enjoyed love, after the dizzying rapture faded, and was replaced with something more fulsome? Truer, deeper? But I never gave it a chance. And that might have been a huge mistake... Rebecca Raisin
3
Regret is such a miserable word. But there have been plenty of times alone, where I wished I took the risk and gave someone my heart, and not just a sliver of it. After one stumble, you've pulled the shutters down. Closed up shop. I'm just saying, don't waste your life protecting your heart, or you'll get to the end of it and realize it wasn't worth it. Rebecca Raisin
4
Second hand books had so much life in them. They'd lived, sometimes in many homes, or maybe just one. They'd been on airplanes, traveled to sunny beaches, or crowded into a backpack and taken high up a mountain where the air thinned." Some had been held aloft tepid rose-scented baths, and thickened and warped with moisture. Others had child-like scrawls on the acknowledgement page, little fingers looking for a blank space to leave their mark. Then there were the pristine novels, ones that had been read carefully, bookmarks used, almost like their owner barely pried the pages open so loathe were they to damage their treasure. I loved them all. And I found it hard to part with them. Though years of book selling had steeled me. I had to let them go, and each time made a fervent wish they'd be read well, and often. Missy, my best friend, said I was completely cuckoo, and that I spent too much time alone in my shadowy shop, because I believed my books communicated with me. A soft sigh here, as they stretched their bindings when dawn broke, or a hum, as they anticipated a customer hovering close who might run a hand along their cover, tempting them to flutter their pages hello. Books were fussy when it came to their owners, and gave off a type of sound, an almost imperceptible whirr, when the right person was near. Most people weren't aware that books chose us, at the time when we needed them. . Rebecca Raisin