When we choose to operate on the frequency of compassion and kindness, we create, and reinforce our own reality, as filled with compassion and kindness. I refer here to the idea of unconditional compassion and kindness. It means that we can choose to react to any situation, as negative as it may seem to be, with kindness and understanding. Whenever someone chooses to be rude to us, there is no need for us to respond with rudeness. A moment of self-reflection can remind us that fire fought with fire only increases the heat. The more often we practice our conscious positive response, to any situation, our automatic negative reactions are gradually being replaced with a conscious decision to act in the most loving way we can conceive at the moment. Raphael Zernoff
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In this statement, Dr. Wayne Dyer is reminding us that we must change our way of thinking if we want to improve our lives. We need to stop focusing on the bad things and start focusing on the good things. If we think only of the bad things, we will continue doing what we have been doing and probably get even worse.

If we think only of the good things, we will notice that there are a lot more good things than bad things in our lives and we will be able to find a way to deal with the difficult situations that come up. It might be easier said than done but this is what is needed to create a better life for ourselves.

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