7 Quotes & Sayings By Shilpi Somaya Gowda

Shilpi Somaya Gowda is a writer, editor and educator based in New York City. Her work has appeared in The Awl, the New York Times, National Public Radio, Wanderlust, The Awl, and others. She is a contributing editor for Bust Magazine and has been a guest on the Today Show and NPR's Morning Edition. She is also a member of PEN International.

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He opened his heart to me. He wasn't afraid to show me his weakness. It was a remarkable thing, in that time, for a man to do that. That's the key thing about a strong marriage. It gives you a safe place to be yourself, entirely, even the weak parts. Shilpi Somaya Gowda
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Kavita’s arms are still outstretched, but they hold nothing. After the metal gate clangs shut behind them, Kavita can still hear Usha’s piercing wail echoing inside. Shilpi Somaya Gowda
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Not only was it impossible to truly belong in America, but he didn't fit in here anymore either. He was a dweller of two lands, accepted by none. Shilpi Somaya Gowda
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Most people, including Ma, preferred to brush unpleasantness away, as if, by sweeping it outside with the dust, it could be forgotten. As if, by acknowledging the existence of something unsavory in their community, they might be tainted by it themselves. Shilpi Somaya Gowda
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Then she rushes to pick up Asha from school, where she is known only as "Asha's mom" by the other mothers, who seem to all spend a lot of time together. Somer has no time for the PTA and bake sales. She has no time for herself. Her profession no longer defines her, but neither does being a mother. Both are pieces of her, and yet they don't seem to add up to a whole. Shilpi Somaya Gowda
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Americans are so tightly wound, the way they kill themselves to get ahead. It's no way to live, I tell you. Shilpi Somaya Gowda