10 Quotes & Sayings By Robert Bly

Robert Bly is a poet, an author, a lecturer, and a member of the faculty at Sarah Lawrence College. His published works include Iron John: A Book About Men, The Rag and Bone Shop of the Heart, and The Sibling Society. He has been awarded four Pushcart Prizes for his work in poetry. He is a contributor to the New York Times Magazine and a member of the editorial board of Poetry magazine.

It is not our job to remain whole. We came...
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It is not our job to remain whole. We came to lose our leaves Like the trees, and be born again, Drawing up from the great roots. Robert Bly
Reclaiming the sacred in our lives naturally brings us close...
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Reclaiming the sacred in our lives naturally brings us close once more to the wellsprings of poetry. Robert Bly
I have daughters and I have sons. When one of...
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I have daughters and I have sons. When one of them lays a hand On my shoulder, shining fish Turn suddenly in the deep sea. Robert Bly
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The human face shines as it speaks of things Near itself, thoughts full of dreams. The human face shines like a dark sky As it speaks of those things that oppress the living Robert Bly
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We have never understood how birds manage to fly, Nor who the genius is who makes up dreams, Now how heaven and earth can appear in a poem. Robert Bly
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It's all right if people think we are idiots. It's all right if we lie face down on the earth. It's all right if we open the coffin and climb in. Robert Bly
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Finding the FatherMy friend, this body offers to carry us for nothing— as the ocean carries logs. So on some days the body wails with its great energy; it smashes up the boulders, lifting small crabs, that flow around the sides. Someone knocks on the door. We do not have time to dress. He wants us to go with him through the blowing and rainy streets, to the dark house. We will go there, the body says, and there find the father whom we have never met, who wandered out in a snowstorm the night we were born, and who then lost his memory, and has lived since longing for his child, whom he saw only once… while he worked as a shoemaker, as a cattle herder in Australia, as a restaurant cook who painted at night. When you light the lamp you will see him. He sits there behind the door… the eyebrows so heavy, the forehead so light… lonely in his whole body, waiting for you. Robert Bly
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It’s good if you can accept your life–you’ll notice Your face has become deranged trying to adjust To it. Your face thought your life would look Like your bedroom mirror when you were ten. That was a clear river touched by mountain wind. Even your parents can’t believe how much you’vechanged. Robert Bly
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When a father, absent during the day, returns home at six, his children receive only his temperament, not his teaching. Robert Bly