5 Quotes & Sayings By Joel Paris

Joel Paris is the author of the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life." He is known nationally as a relationship expert and speaker. His mission is to help men and women get what they want out of their relationships. Joel is not a therapist but he has been successfully treating people in therapy for over twenty years Read more

He's also performed hundreds of marriage and couples counseling sessions and has frequently been asked to give marriage counseling seminars. Joel has appeared on Oprah, The Today Show, The Late Show with David Letterman, The Montel Williams Show, The Joy Behar Show, Larry King Live, CNN Headline News, Daybreak, The Joy Behar Show again. He's appeared on many other national TV shows such as FOX News with Alan Colmes and Fox & Friends with Gretchen Carlson.

He covered the 2006 Presidential race in three different states in his RV and was the subject of a national news story in 2006 about his RV with Obama bumper stickers on it.

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The main reason why clinicians may not diagnose personality disorders is that they think that doing so supports therapeutic pessimism. Recent research has shown this is not true; most patients get better, either with time or with treatment, that the prognosis is actually better than in many patients with severe mood and anxiety disorders. Joel Paris
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What is actually observed in so-called 'biplar children'? If you read the research reports carefully, they describe broad and persistent emotional dysregulation. Although these children have mood swings, they do not develop manic or hypomanic episodes. They are moody, irritable, oppositional and likely to misbehave–like all children with disruptive behavior disorders. Their grandiose thinking usually consists of little beyond boastfulness. No evidence from genetics, neurobiology, follow-up studies or treatment response shows that this syndrome has anything in common with classical bipolarity. Joel Paris
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DSM-5 is not 'the bible of psychiatry' but a practical manual for everyday work. Psychiatric diagnosis is primarily a way of communicating. That function is essential but pragmatic–categories of illness can be useful without necessarily being 'true.' The DSM system is a rough-and-ready classification that brings some degree of order to chaos. It describes categories of disorder that are poorly understood and that will be replaced with time. Moreover, current diagnoses are syndromes that mask the presence of true diseases. They are symptomatic variants of broader processes or arbitrary cut-off points on a continuum. Joel Paris
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The categories used in psychiatric diagnosis are based on observation of signs and symptoms, rather than on pathological processes. One can make use of a few signs, such as facial expressions associated with depression or the flight of ideas associated with mania. But what clinicians mainly use for diagnosis are symptoms, the subject experiences reported by patients. Psychiatrists have little knowledge of the processes that lie behind these phenomena. Thus psychiatric diagnoses, with very few exceptions, are syndromes, not diseases. Joel Paris