If, when stung by slander or ill-nature, we wax proud and swell with anger, it is a proof that our gentleness and humility are unreal, and mere artificial show.

Francis De Sales
If, when stung by slander or ill-nature, we wax proud...
If, when stung by slander or ill-nature, we wax proud...
If, when stung by slander or ill-nature, we wax proud...
If, when stung by slander or ill-nature, we wax proud...
About This Quote

The very best way to deal with someone who has wronged you is to remain calm and dignified. The world will be a better place if we learn to handle slander and ill-will in a proper way. If we become angry and our pride swells, it means that we are not really humble and gentle after all, but fake.

Source: Introduction To The Devout Life

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