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If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is just enough for both of you to release the truth, so healing can occur. The opposite is true, as well. If you don’t have feelings for someone then never let another person suggest that you do. Protect your reputation and be responsible for the wrong information spread about you. Never allow anyone to live with a false belief or unfounded hope about you. An honorable person sets the record straight, so that person can move on with their life.Shannon L. Alder
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Never annoy an inspirational author or you will become the poison in her pen and the villian in every one of her books.Shannon L. Alder
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Once you embrace your value, talents and strengths, it neutralizes when others think less of you.Rob Liano
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A coward talks to everyone but YOU.Shannon L. Alder
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When someone is stalking you because they think you are stalking them, it makes you wonder who really is the true stalker?Shannon L. Alder
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Love may be blind but jealousy has 20-20 vision.Shannon L. Alder
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Often those that criticise others reveal what he himself lacks.Shannon L. Alder
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The way you think about yourself determines your reality. You are not being hurt by the way people think about you. Many of those people are a reflection of how you think about yourself.Shannon L. Alder
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You will never choose love greater than what you believe you deserve and what other insecure people tell your lack of self esteem to have faith in.Shannon L. Alder
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Insecure people often falsify the past, in order to make the future pure.Shannon L. Alder
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Stupidity is to have amnesia over your own faults when the person you hate makes theirs.Shannon L. Alder
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A man worth being with is one… That never lies to you Is kind to people that have hurt him A person that respects another’s life That has manners and shows people respect That goes out of his way to help people That feels every person, no matter how difficult, deserves compassion Who believes you are the most beautiful person he has ever met Who brags about your accomplishments with pride Who talks to you about anything and everything because no bad news will make him love you less That is a peacemaker That will see you through illness Who keeps his promises Who doesn’t blame others, but finds the good in them That raises you up and motivates you to reach for the stars That doesn’t need fame, money or anything materialistic to be happy That is gentle and patient with children Who won’t let you lie to yourself; he tells you what you need to hear, in order to help you grow Who lives what he says he believes in Who doesn’t hold a grudge or hold onto the past Who doesn’t ask his family members to deliberately hurt people that have hurt him Who will run with your dreams That makes you laugh at the world and yourself Who forgives and is quick to apologize Who doesn’t betray you by having inappropriate conversations with other women Who doesn’t react when he is angry, decides when he is sad or keep promises he doesn’t plan to keep Who takes his children’s spiritual life very seriously and teaches by example Who never seeks revenge or would ever put another person down Who communicates to solve problems Who doesn’t play games or passive aggressively ignores people to hurt them Who is real and doesn’t pretend to be something he is not Who has the power to free you from yourself through his positive outlook Who has a deep respect for women and treats them like a daughter of GodWho doesn’t have an ego or believes he is better than anyone Who is labeled constantly by people as the nicest person they have ever met Who works hard to provide for the family Who doesn’t feel the need to drink alcohol to have a good time, smoke or do drugs Who doesn't have to hang out a bar with his friends, but would rather spend his time with his family Who is morally free from sin Who sees your potential to be great Who doesn't think a woman's place has to be in the home; he supports your life mission, where ever that takes you Who is a gentleman Who is honest and lives with integrity Who never discusses your private business with anyone Who will protect his family Who forgives, forgets, repairs and restores When you find a man that possesses these traits then all the little things you don’t have in common don’t matter. This is the type of man worth being grateful for.Shannon L. Alder
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One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many people don’t want you to have it. You have to find the courage to seize it, own it and hold on!Shannon L. Alder
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Bitter people are not interested in what you say, but what you hide.Shannon L. Alder
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Envy is the desire to have what someone else has. Jealousy is the fear of losing what you have. The more insecure you are about yourself or your relationship, the more jealous you are, because you are afraid to lose your significant other to someone else.Oliver Markus
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Gossip is the sound of jealously.Anton Rubaclini
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Everyone loses their class when they travel through hell, but only a few will regain it if they remain humble and accept the part they played in their own misery.Shannon L. Alder
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Often people that say they “don’t care” actually do. The moment they discuss you with their friends and family, compete with you, bad mouth you to others or react to anything you do or say is when they give themselves away. You can either be saddened or flattered that you effected someone so much. The perspective is yours to determine.Shannon L. Alder
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The good part about having a mental disorder is having a valid reason for all the stupid things we do because of a damaged prefrontal cortex. However, the best part is seeing someone completely sane do the exact same things, without a valid excuse. This is the great equalizer of God and his little gift for all us crazy people to enjoy.Shannon L. Alder
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Often a woman that doesn’t have any business being in a fight is there because their ego thinks it can mend what other people can’t. It’s either superiority or a second chance to heal a wound they have, by meddling on your battlefield.Shannon L. Alder
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If you choose to be fearless, then be fearlessly authentic not an imitation of someone you envy.Shannon L. Alder
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Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their dark, starless nights.Shannon L. Alder
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Love has a way of making the sane insane and the insane normal.Shannon L. Alder
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Your tears are never invisible---there is always an insecure woman that lights up when you point them out.Shannon L. Alder
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People that are jealous and envious of you are too freaking lazy to step up their own game.April Mae Monterrosa
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Hypocrisy/hi pakrise/ noun1. The moment you tell someone it is not important to be right, in order to look right to everyone else.Shannon L. Alder