I had learned early to assume something dark and lethal hidden at the heart of anything I loved. When I couldn't find it, I responded, bewildered and wary, in the only way I knew how: by planting it there myself.

Tana French
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The quote “I had learned early to assume something dark and lethal hidden at the heart of anything I loved. When I couldn't find it, I responded, bewildered and wary, in the only way I knew how: by planting it there myself.” was said by Katherine Helmond in order to express her love for her mother, who was a terrifying force of nature. The quote uses the word “assume” and that is probably what makes it so powerful and so taboo at the same time. It is normal when we talk about someone we love but when we talk about our mothers we tend to put a veil over them. We need to protect ourselves against them and perhaps that is why even when you learn early to assume something dark and lethal hidden at the heart of anything you love you still can’t escape from loving them.

Source: In The Woods

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