We Americans pride ourselves on our freedom to speak, to say what we believe. But of what use is it to speak if only those who already agree with us listen? A first step toward the abolition of war is learning to listen with respect and sympathy.

Nel Noddings
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Peace can only be achieved through listening to one another. When people are not able to listen to each other, they are bound to have misunderstandings and conflicts which can lead to wars. The only way to stop wars is by listening to each other's views and opinions.

Source: Peace Education: How We Come To Love And Hate War

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