Remember that you own what happened to you. If your childhood was less than ideal, you may have been raised thinking that if you told the truth about what really went on in your family, a long bony white finger would emerge from a cloud and point to you, while a chilling voice thundered, "We *told* you not to tell." But that was then. Just put down on paper everything you can remember now about your parents and siblings and relatives and neighbors, and we will deal with libel later on. Anne Lamott
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The power that you have to change your life is within you. In order for you to be successful, you must do the things that are necessary for success. If you don't know what those things are, then you will never succeed because nothing will be within your control. The only thing that will be within your control is what you decide to do about it.

You can decide to take responsibility for your life and make the necessary changes to improve it. Most importantly, you can decide to make a difference in other people's lives as well.

Source: Bird By Bird: Some Instructions On Writing And Life

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