Bell HooksGiving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource.
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Giving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource. Giving someone an unrelenting amount of attention means that you are constantly giving them positive energy. When they are filled with positive energy, they can become more confident and more productive.
Source: All About Love: New Visions
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