Abuse manipulates and twists a child’s natural sense of trust and love. Her innocent feelings are belittled or mocked and she learns to ignore her feelings. She can’t afford to feel the full range of feelings in her body while she’s being abused–pain, outrage, hate, vengeance, confusion, arousal. So she short-circuits them and goes numb. For many children, any expression of feelings, even a single tear, is cause for more severe abuse. Again, the only recourse is to shut down. Feelings go underground. . Unknown
About This Quote

"Abuse manipulates and twists a child's natural sense of trust and love. Her innocent feelings are belittled or mocked and she learns to ignore her feelings. She can't afford to feel the full range of feelings in her body while she's being abused—pain, outrage, hate, vengeance, confusion, arousal. So she short-circuits them and goes numb.

For many children, any expression of feelings, even a single tear, is cause for more severe abuse." The quote goes on to explain that children who have been abused tend to develop a numbness towards their feelings in general. As a result they tend to withdraw from situations in which they might feel strong emotions which in turn makes it difficult for them to be able to communicate with others in a healthy way.

Source: Allies In Healing: When The Person You Love Is A Survivor Of Child Sexual Abuse

Some Similar Quotes
  1. I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. - Marilyn Monroe
  2. You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching, Love like you'll never be hurt, Sing like there's nobody listening, And live like it's heaven on earth. - William W. Purkey
  3. You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams. - Dr. Seuss
  4. A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you. - Elbert Hubbard
  5. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that. - Unknown
More Quotes By Unknown
  1. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.
  2. It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.
  3. Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.
  4. I would always rather be happy than dignified.
  5. He's more myself than I am. Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.
Related Topics