The man who fears to be alone will never be anything but lonely, no matter how much he may surround himself with people. But the man who learns, in solitude and recollection, to be at peace with his own loneliness, and to prefer its reality to the illusion of merely natural companionship, comes to know the invisible companionship of God. Such a one is alone with God in all places, and he alone truly enjoys the companionship of other men, because he loves them in God in Whom their presence is not tiresome, and because of Whom his own love for them can never know satiety.Thomas Merton
About This Quote
Many people today seek to be alone rather than together. The modern age has made us isolate ourselves from one another. We are taught to look for our happiness in other people, yet the truth is that only our own inner peace can bring true happiness. When you are alone, you are not truly alone because you are always connected to the love of God.
It is always there, even when you are alone. The person who wants to be alone will never find true happiness while the person who is willing to take on the pain of loneliness will find the greatest joy in life.
Source: No Man Is An Island
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