Julian BarnesYou can deal with the brain, as I say; it looks sensible, whereas the heart, the human heart, I'm afraid, looks a fucking mess.
About This Quote
The heart is the seat of human emotions. It is where feelings are experienced. The brain, on the other hand, is the organ that controls thought processes. People are often quick to talk about their brain but are reluctant to discuss their heart.
They would rather not bring up the possibility that their heart may be the root of their problems. This quote is a strong indictment of this mentality. The heart is more than just a place for emotional experiences; it is also where compassion and love reside.
These qualities are often what bind people together.
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