10 Quotes & Sayings By Terry Mcmillan

Terry McMillan is the author of the bestselling novel Waiting to Exhale, which has been adapted into a movie, a play and a television series. She is a native of Baltimore, Maryland. Her first book, How Stella Got Her Groove Back, was a New York Times bestseller and was followed by Mama Loves to Tell Stories, This Life I Live and Push.

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I like to think of what happens to characters in good novels and stories as knots--things keep knotting up. And by the end of the story--readers see an unknotting of sorts. Not what you expect, not the easy answers you get on TV, not wash and wear philosophies, but a reproduction of believable, emotional experiences. Terry McMillan
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For five years I didn't think it was possible to be this happy. But then he forgot all those promises he made. He forgot why he loved me. He simply stopped loving me. And this is how he did it: He stopped talking to me unless I spoke to him. He stopped holding my hand. He stopped kissing me good night. He stopped kissing me good morning. He stopped kissing me. He stopped smiling at me. He stopped laughing. He stopped bathing and showering with me. He stopped wanting me. He started swearing at me. He started lying to me. He started cheating on me. He hurt me. And then he told me he was in love with another woman and wanted a divorce. Oh, I forgot. He said he was sorry. I wanted to blow his fucking brains out. Terry McMillan
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I pray for my children. That they stay safe and make good decisions. That they be happy, thoughtful, and caring human beings. That they have the strength to get up if they fall down. Terry McMillan
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I pray for my mother. That if she can't ever recover what she's lost or what she's losing, that she not feel like she's lost. I pray that we make her feel necessary and valued as long as possible. That she comes to know comfort, even if I can't provide it myself. Terry McMillan
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I pray for my sister. That she be allowed to discover grace and find peace without drugs. That her hair grows. That some of her pain be driven from her and given to me because I think I can handle it. I pray for her kids. That they find they have a chance to grow up knowing they were loved. Terry McMillan
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I also discovered that you can get used to a man , much like you do a household pet! Terry McMillan
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Yeah, well all I can say is that a half truth is a still a while lie, ain't it... Terry McMillan
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Let me put it this way: when I read, I learned the world was not as small as my house. And that everybody in my home town was not representative of the way people in the world were raised. And that was what saved me. Terry McMillan
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You know, one of my fears about living alone so long is that you get used to doing everything your own way. Terry McMillan