3 Quotes & Sayings By Sari Botton

Sari Botton is the author of nine books on various subjects, including The Family Law Book (1999), The Parenting Book (2001), The Living Abroad Book (2005), and How to Find a Good Therapist (2006). Sari teaches courses at Columbia University's School of Social Work. She is also an independent consultant, trainer, and speaker.

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The city had seemed like a great place to discover who you are. It just seemed that there was a lot to experience here, as if all you had to do was show up and the city would take care of the rest, making sure you got the education, the maturing, the wising-up you needed. Its crowds, the noise, the endlessness of it all, the perpetual motion, felt exciting then–revealing–just the deep end I needed to jump into. There is something unique about New York, some quality, some matchless, pertinent combination of promise and despair, wizardry and counterfeit, abundance and depletion, that stimulates and allows for a reckoning to occur–maybe even forces it. The city pulls back the curtain on who you are; it tests you and shows you what you are made of in a way that has become iconic in our popular culture, and with good reason. Sari Botton
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They pine for the hip, frosty girlfriend they abandoned for a pleasant if unexciting marriage to her sunnier, less mentally present sister coast. Sari Botton