8 Quotes & Sayings By Rucy Ban

Rucy Ban is a professional writer, editor, and entrepreneur who has written for publications such as Redbook, Shape, and Elle. Her essays have appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Huffington Post, Marie Claire, Self, and More. She was awarded the National Magazine Award in category Essays for her work "Where Do You Go When You're Lonely?" Her writing has received honors in the National Magazine Awards three times. Rucy lives in New York City with her husband and two daughters.

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Mom lies down next to me and we both stare at the ceiling in complete silence. “Boys are like candy, ” she suddenly says. I grin. “Really, Mom? That’s your advice? Boys are like candy. What is that? Forrest Gump on teens? Rucy Ban
2
You know when you mix butt and Angel in the same sentence, it becomes an insult, ” I say and take a big gulp from the can. With his back to me, he says, “Trust me, I would never dream of insulting your butt. I’m sure it’s better than anything I’m cooking out here. Rucy Ban
3
Breathless I look up at him and find him gazing at me with a wonder that my deep-seated insecurity finds hard to believe. Then he does this thing. His fingers start moving on my face, tracing outlines. They trail along my eyebrows, the ridge of my nose, the apple of my cheeks and the line of my jaw. His touch is like feather but his eyes…they blaze and just like that, without saying a single word, he makes me believe. Rucy Ban
4
After a few seconds of scraping, I realize what he has isn’t a trail, it’s a whole forest! Ack! Weren’t all men supposed to shave their chest and stuff nowadays? Whatever happened to having fuzz-free Hollywood heroes as role models? At least my embarrassment is completely foregone by the irritation at his lack of upkeep.  The only thing distracting me now is that heady mix of musk, shaving cream and a distinctly…male scent. And God knows that is one seriously jeopardizing distraction. Especially with a whizzing needle in one’s hand. Rucy Ban
5
Neil Mars?! I could blame him for having killer looks but he could not be faulted for this. He couldn’t have chosen that name for himself.  No wonder he tortures his Mom by calling her by her name. Rucy Ban
6
Guys like him? They were the worst kind. All looks and no heart. Guys not like him? They were all deceiving, freaking asshats. Rucy Ban
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Never make eye contact with a stranger when you’re having a churro. Rucy Ban