4 Quotes & Sayings By Patrick J Carnes

Patrick J. Carnes is a nationally renowned sex addiction therapist and the author of the acclaimed books, The Sexual Healing Journey (2009) and Carnes' Rules (1999). He is also the founder of Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA), an internationally recognized twelve-step group for people with compulsive sexual behavior. His popular radio show, Sexaholic, reaches hundreds of thousands of listeners worldwide Read more

He has appeared on numerous television programs, including Today, Good Morning America, CNN, Oprah, The Today Show, Larry King Live, and The View. Carnes lives in Los Angeles with his wife and four children.

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However, sexual anorexics do have a definite profile that separates them from the larger population of those having difficulty being sexual: They are often extremely competent people who are committed to doing things very well and have a fear of making mistakes and being human. Patrick J. Carnes
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We are so used to our own history, we do not see it as remarkable or out of the ordinary, whereas others might see it as horrendous. Further, we tend to minimize that which we feel shameful about. Patrick J. Carnes
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By the Middles Ages it was a sin to have sex with a child. If an adult were guilty of such a sin, one remedy was to declare the child a witch. The child thus became an offender who "beguiled" the adult with the power of the Evil One. Understanding this process puts a new light on the burning of witches. A Catholic bishop in Wurttemberg in the seventeenth century writes, for example, of his sadness at having presided over the burning of three hundred young girls that year and of his wonder if the church were making a mistake. Patrick J. Carnes