5 Quotes & Sayings By Naomi Jackson

Naomi Jackson is a bestselling author and founder of the "I Got This" Foundation. She is the youngest person to ever receive an honorary doctorate from Harvard University. Naomi lives in Houston, Texas, with her husband and two sons. Her other books include: "Sister to Sister: A Guide to Empowering One Another Through Sisterhood and the Power of Women and Girls," and "The Greatness Handbook: The Elevator Pitch that Transcends Generations." Naomi is a regular contributor to Essence magazine's website, www.Essence.com, where she shares her vision for women of color through essays, interviews, daily quotes, videos, podcasts, live Q&A sessions with readers, and more.

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And she knew that this was the thing that would harm Dionne in the end, not her foolishness but the foolhardy way in which she clung to her own terrible ideas. She knew that this was Avril's undoing, not that she'd made the wrong choices, but that she'd been so unwilling to let anyone in to see the lie of her marriage, this masking was worse than the original mistake. Sixty-three years on this earth has taught Hyacinth that it wasn't so much the mistakes that people made but how flexible they were in the aftermath that made all the difference in how their lives turned out. It was the women who held too tightly to the dream of their husband's fidelity who unraveled, the parents who clasped their children too close who lost them, the me who grieved too deeply the lives they'd wanted and would never have who saw their sadness consume them. Hyacinth worried about Dionne because of her hard way of being in the world, the way she could only see the world through the lens of her own flawed feelings. Naomi Jackson
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[T]he only thing that has power over you is what you can't say, even to yourself. Naomi Jackson
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Maybe this is what growing old was like, she thought. Maybe the world gets smaller and smaller until there's nothing but the walls around you to show you where you end and the rest of the world begins. Naomi Jackson
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Hyacinth took out a bottle of rum, and Phaedra raised her eyebrows, a reflex she'd acquired upon seeing her father and mother under its influence, their eyes and mouths turned wilder, as if a cork at the edges of their personalities had come unscrewed. Naomi Jackson