7 Quotes & Sayings By Melissa Kantor

Melissa Kantor is a well-known writer and author of the best-selling book The Kinky Truth: A Guide to Getting It On. Melissa is a contributing editor for Cosmopolitan magazine and has been featured on CNN, MSNBC, and in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, Newsweek, and The Washington Post. She is also the founder of the San Francisco–based Center for Sex and Culture.

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I was just thoughts, just air. There was nothingness all around me. Was this what it was like to be dead? When you died, did you still sense everything going on around you, only it was happening so far away that you didn't care about it? You were floating through space and time, and nothing that happened to you mattered because nothing really could happen to you because you didn't exist? Melissa Kantor
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...[W]hen I told my dad why I was calling, he just said, 'Honey, you're so beautiful it doesn't matter what you wear.' I wondered how many dads in America were, at that very moment, giving their daughters the same useless advice mine was giving me. Melissa Kantor
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I wanted to kill someone and I wanted to die and I wanted to run as far and as fast as I could because she was never coming back. She had fallen off the face of the earth and she was never coming back. Melissa Kantor
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I hate gender stereotypes like girls love princesses and boys like guns.. . my point is that tying particular behaviors and interests to particular gender seems to be the major reason guys who like dance get called names. Melissa Kantor
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Tonight was a perfect illustration of why Cinderella and the Prince get married twenty-four hours after they meet. Because when you're living with your stepmother, there is no happily ever after. Melissa Kantor
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Because if anything can make death feel like a truly desirable alternative, it's getting dumped. Melissa Kantor