5 Quotes & Sayings By Elder Porphyrios

Elder Porphyrios was born in Cyprus in 1962, where he lived most of his life. He was ordained as a monk in 2005. He is the spiritual director of the Myrrh-stream Monastery in New York City, where he lives with his brother Elder Joseph. Elder Porphyrios is also the spiritual director of the St Read more

Seraphim Monastery in New York, the St. Nicholas Monastery in California, and the Sts. Cosmas and Damian Monastery in Massachusetts.

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..The life of the parents is the only thing that makes good children. Parents should be very patient and ‘saintlike’ to their children. They should truly love their children. And the children will share this love! For the bad attitude of the children, says father Porphyrios, the ones who are usually responsible for it are their parents themselves. The parents don’t help their children by lecturing them and repeating to them ‘advices’, or by making them obeying strict rules in order to impose discipline. If the parents do not become ‘saints’ and truly love their children and if they don’t struggle for it, then they make a huge mistake. With their wrong and/or negative attitude the parents convey to their children their negative feelings. Then their children become reactive and insecure not only to their home, but to the society as well.. Elder Porphyrios
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Somebody who is Christ's must love Christ, and when he loves Christ he is delivered from the Devil, from hell and from death. Elder Porphyrios
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...Love Christ and put nothing before His Love. He is joy, He is life, He is light. Christ is Everything. He is the ultimate desire, He is everything. Everything beautiful is in Christ. Elder Porphyrios
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...This is the way we should see Christ. He is our friend, our brother; He is whatever is good and beautiful. He is everything. Yet, He is still a friend and He shouts it out, "You're my friends, don't you understand that? We're brothers. I'm not... I don't hold hell in my hands. I am not threatening you. I love you. I want you to enjoy life together with me. Elder Porphyrios