60 Quotes About Shy

Shyness is an entirely different problem from being introverted or shy. You don’t have to be a loner to be shy, and you don’t have to be a social butterfly to feel lonely. In fact, many introverts are confident, self-assured individuals who just don’t want to be the center of attention. If you think that shyness is holding you back in your life, here are some of the best, most inspirational quotes about shyness that will inspire you to overcome this fear and build better connections with friends and family.

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She looked at him, his soft brown eyes and tall form, and contemplated raising herself on her toes and kissing his ear, or his cheek... Instead, impulsively before leaving, she reached up and smoothed his mussed hair. Mr. Bradford beamed. Heather Dixon
There is a certain delightful sort of hope which the...
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There is a certain delightful sort of hope which the introvert can receive only by having company over...the hope that they will leave soon. Criss Jami
Because there are hundreds of different ways to say one...
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Because there are hundreds of different ways to say one thing, I, being a writer, songwriter, and poet, speak childishly and incoherently. In speech there is so much to decide in so little time. Criss Jami
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When they got to their hotel she went straight up to bed, but he paused to get a drink. There was, in the vestibule, a flower stall and he bought a handful of roses, stiffly wired into a bouquet, before proceeding to the oppressive gorgeousness of their bridal suite. The lift was lined with looking glass, so that as he shot upwards he got an endlessly duplicated version of himself, stout and nervous, a light cloak flung over his shoulder and flowers in his hand: an infinitely long row of gentlemen carrying offerings to an unforgiving past. Margaret Kennedy
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I've always been shy physically. This in part tended to keep me from rushing into things, including relationships, headlong. Not rushing headlong, though I may have wanted to, but beginning to write stories about people, I drew near slowly; noting and guessing, apprehending, hoping, drawing my eventual conclusions out of my own heart, I did venture closer to where I wanted to go. Eudora Welty
When you get shy, you’re simply thinking of yourself. Stop...
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When you get shy, you’re simply thinking of yourself. Stop it. Step out of yourself. Kamand Kojouri
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I am a deeply uncertain individual. I often find myself acting like a fool to make the people around me laugh. When they’re laughing, they’re not watching me quite as closely. I smile to put people at ease. But what if I opened my mouth one day, spoke my actual thoughts, and the people glared at my opinions? What if they thought me disgusting or frightening or ugly because of my words? Would you keep your lips shut for the rest of your life to not face that judgment? Just for the sake of someone else’s comfort? For these strangers, who I will never know? If I can’t speak then I’ll write. These strangers, whose opinions crush me, will be forced to listen. Because when they read my words those words will make a home within their heads. They may even end up using my own opinions against me. But at least I’ll be hidden behind the pages of a book. F.K. Preston
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He was rather clumsy and shy and looked as if he'd spent the last ten years of his life locked up in a library - hardly the kind of man any girl your age dreams of ... Unknown
Timidity is the silent acceptance of bondage
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Timidity is the silent acceptance of bondage Constance Friday
Nothing is as irritating to a shy man as a...
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Nothing is as irritating to a shy man as a confident girl. Mokokoma Mokhonoana
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You might be an introvert if you were ready to go home before you left the house. Criss Jami
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Alcohol is one of the quickest vehicles with which we escape shyness, our problems, and self-consciousness, for a few hours. Mokokoma Mokhonoana
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A poor but confident man is as hard to find as a rich but shy man. Mokokoma Mokhonoana
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Once bitten twice shy? Sure, but... why not get a bigger dog and bite them back? A.A. Bell
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My feelings are too loud for words and too shy for the world. Dejan Stojanovic
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Quiet people always know more than they seem. Although very normal, their inner world is by default fronted mysterious and therefore assumed weird. Never underestimate the social awareness and sense of reality in a quiet person; they are some of the most observant, absorbent persons of all. Criss Jami
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A Coy Aversion...a fluttertoo shyto be seen... Muse
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Life occasionally humbles us by making us turned on by someone whom we turn off. Mokokoma Mokhonoana
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Of all individuals, the hated, the shunned, and the peculiar are arguably most themselves. They wear no masks whatsoever in order to be accepted and liked; they do seem most guarded, but only by their own hands: as compared to the populace, they are naked. Criss Jami
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Half of me is filled with bursting words and half of me is painfully shy. I crave solitude yet also crave people. I want to pour life and love into everything yet also nurture my self-care and go gently. I want to live within the rush of primal, intuitive decision, yet also wish to sit and contemplate. This is the messiness of life - that we all carry multitudes, so must sit with the shifts. We are complicated creatures, and ultimately, the balance comes from this understanding. Be water. Flowing, flexible and soft. Subtly powerful and open. Wild and serene. Able to accept all changes, yet still led by the pull of steady tides. It is enough. Victoria Erickson
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...words are so strong and I am so timid - my soul ignores warnings and I end up covered with your paint ... John Geddes
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Silence might be a shout for the truth. It might be the speech that someday, in its truest, most uncontaminated, unadulterated state, all will be revealed. Criss Jami
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The humble ones are always learning and improving, and their secret is always that it's a secret. Criss Jami
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Never forget that when connections get destroyed by means of bad communication, it's good communication that resolves them. Don't be shy to say "I am sorry" and "please forgive me". That's a good communication! Israelmore Ayivor
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It's not that easy to find someone I can relate to. I'm tough to crack because I'm shy. Kristin Kreuk
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Don't be shy to say "I am sorry"; Never feel too big to say "Please forgive me"; Don't think it's unnecessary to say "thank you"; Never feel bad to admit "I am wrong"! That's a good tactics is communication! Israelmore Ayivor
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Perhaps a seemingly dull, boring person is not a person who lacks personality, but rather a person with so much personality most other things bore them. Criss Jami
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If you want to go to a place you have never been before, you have to ask questions you have never asked before. Don't feel shy to ask questions about things you don't know! Israelmore Ayivor
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In her experience, groups of friends like that just didn't open up to include underage, undersized geeks like her. They hadn't sounded mean, they just sounded – self-confident. Something she wasn't. Rachel Caine
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Being shy is a symptom of a low self-esteem. Mokokoma Mokhonoana
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Even painfully shy and awkward people are not painfully shy or awkward when they are alone. The way to access this natural, comfortable alone-self when you are with others is by choosing to forbid yourself to wonder what "they" are thinking. Instead, force yourself to exist in the instant, then take it- and give it- as it comes. Augusten Burroughs
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I'm still shy, " I admit, pulling the sleeves over my hands, "and I might always be, I don't know, but I think you can be shy and still feel okay about yourself at the same time. Megan Jacobson
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Infants never learn to soothe themselves to sleep. They learn, abandoned in seclusion, that no matter the volume of their despondence, no matter the force of their tears, when they are alone and frightened, no-one will ever come to their rescue. Infants do not soothe themselves. They merely surrender. And it is caged in their cribs where the infants learn, in the face of their demons, to remain silent and submitting. C. Sean McGee
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Your shyness alone will bring you more emotional and material losses than all of your other negative attributes. Amit Kalantri
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Is it ok to sometimes be shy? Yes, of course. The point is, that being that way all the time and using it as an excuse to never be the opposite of shy, it's not good. It's not good for your life, your interactions, strenght of character and how diverse and interesting you can be. You are MORE than shy. Don't be labeled, be what you wanna be in any given moment. And DO what WORKS, not what you think you are. Matthew Hussey
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Fluttershyes are like regular shyes, only shinier, and, apparently - also shyer. Whenever petted - they don't flutter, but run away instead. Will Advise
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It often seems as though the silent, humble servant is secretly wiser and more discerning than the haughty master; yet through dutiful (and sometimes insecure) surrender he continues to serve and carry out petty orders in loyal acquiescence. Criss Jami
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Shy, what is it? I say it is intrigued by pride and hesitated by a feeling of being unworthy. Unknown
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The writer in her went silent and hid when her revealing words were wide-spread read. Donna Lynn Hope
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But when I close my eyes, I'm more like THIS under the surface: I'm laughing and scheming and dreaming. Laura Lee Gulledge
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If you are determined to live life to the full, if you are determined to conquer in life, if you are determined to win in life, if you are determined to soar in life, you must not shy away from this particular demand. Life demands death. Sunday Adelaja
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I write for pages, get lost in the mezzaninehidden from stages. Kristen Henderson
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Fluttershy is a natural beauty with gentle, serene ways. Despite her shy and unassuming nature, Fluttershy has a unique gift with animals. Her sweetness and sincerity can charm every animal, from tiny woodland creatures to the most powerful of mythical beasts, making her a valuable asset to her friends in all their adventures. Although she's afraid of heights (very embarrassing for a Pegasus) and shies away at the slightest sound, Fluttershy has no problem confronting grumpy manticores or scolding greedy dragons. While she lacks confidence, she has an inner strength that comes out when others are in trouble. Fluttershy has a lot of fears to overcome, but one day her strength of character and enormous heart will make her a force to be reckoned with. Brandon T. Snider
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Ballroom dancing was inherently social, but steps replaced words and beats ironed out pauses. The shy, the awkward, and the weird found a home where good rhythm or a barn of a memory vanquished their shyness, awkwardness, and weirdness. Some got good while others stayed middling. Everyone, though, had fun. Erin Bomboy
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I wonder. If I had you wear that mask today, Anne, would you find the courage to tell me what is troubling you?" Anne would very much have liked to confide in her father, but where in the world would she begin? He leaned over and whispered in her ear. "I will tell you a secret, my dear. All of my children are shy. They have simply learned the art of wearing masks. Lena Coakley
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[Lily] "Petunia's hair is too curly to braid, " She said conversationally. Oliver wasn't sure why, but that was what finally made him blush. Jessica Day George
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May feel like you're falling', Tabby, but remember, I'm at the bottom ready to catch you. Kristen Ashley
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Forget about showering with my fellow students in Tribeca Alternative’s prison-style showers–one nozzle for four to six girls at a time–in the locker room. It was impossible to work up a sweat during what passed for physical education class at TAHS, so there was no need to shower, anyway. Well, impossible for me, considering that, in the past, whenever a volleyball or whatever came near me, I’d always make sure to step calmly away to avoid it. See? No sweat. No need for a shower. Problem solved. Meg Cabot
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I stayed there on the floor like that for a long, long time. Eating and crying. Crying and eating. Unknown
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She holds herself with such reserve. She smiles, but the smile doesn't reach her eyes, even in the company of the girls she's chosen to eat with. Why?I have no clue, and I really don't want to spend my time worrying about it. But my brain pushes at the question anyway. Why are people aloof? Because they don't want to let others in. Why don't they want to let others in? Well, sometimes because they're shy, and sometimes because they're convinced of their own superiority. But those aren't the only reasons. Sometimes it's because thay have something to hide. Lauren Myracle
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It’s been a long time. How have you been doing?” I’m fine. How are you? You’re looking very handsome today, Addolgar the Handsome, lord of my loins. At least that was what she’d like to say to him, but instead she came out with, “Yeah, hi. G.A. Aiken
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Everybody wants to be somebody fancy. Even if they're shy. Donald Miller
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Clearly she was expected to say something, but panic at having to speak stole the thoughts from her head. Shannon Hale
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I wasn't shy, but I was really hyper. Nobody got my sense of humor. I was a black skater kid. Tyler
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I was an English major at the University of Minnesota, and I was very shy, which many people misinterpreted as intelligence. On the basis of that wrong impression, I became the editor of the campus literary magazine. Garrison Keillor
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I was quite a shy child. I would get terribly nervous and throw up before my birthday party. And then I would be fine. I feel the same now. I get nervous, then it's fine. Matthew Macfadyen
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The flower that smells the sweetest is shy and lowly. William Wordsworth
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Sometimes I'm really funny, sometimes I'm quiet, sometimes I'm shy, but I'm constantly changing. Elle King
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Success is blocked by concentrating on it and planning for it... Success is shy - it won't come out while you're watching. Tennessee Williams