37 Quotes About Pretence

Pretence is defined as an attempt to deceive others, often by pretending to be someone you are not. Pretence is something we all experience at some point in our lives, whether it’s trying to look ‘cool’ or be someone we’re not. Pretence can make us feel good, but it can also leave you feeling empty and disappointed. These pretence quotes will help you combat the effects of pretence and live a more honest life.

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Buy a gift for a dog, and you'll be amazed at the way it will dance and swerve its tail, but if don't have anything to offer to it, it won't even recognize your arrival; such are the attributes of fake friends. Michael Bassey Johnson
Church was doing what he often did when dropped -...
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Church was doing what he often did when dropped - lying on his back with all four legs in the air, pretending to be dead in order to induce guilt in his owners. Cassandra Clare
How initially 'to get her in the sack' and subsequently...
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How initially 'to get her in the sack' and subsequently to avoid 'her giving you the sack' are not identical dilemmas faced by the male species, but they sure have a bizarre habit of being bedfellows Alex Morritt
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Nobility is a lie. A pretence that high standing comes from anything more than money or martial prowess. Any dolt can play the noble, and as you'll discover in time, daughter, it's mostly dolts who do. Anthony Ryan
Nothing is expensive when you promise.
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Nothing is expensive when you promise. Ljupka Cvetanova
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Power comes at a price, love, " Veliss replied through bared teeth, maintaining the smile she offered to the townsfolk lining the square." What power?"" All power. The power to rule, to kill, or, in your case this fine morning, the power to incite the lust of the old goat you're about to meet."" Lust? I have no desire to incite lust in anyone." Veliss turned to her with a quizzical expression, her smile suddenly genuine. "Then I'm afraid you're in for a lifetime of disappointment. Anthony Ryan
There are people one knows and people one doesn't. One...
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There are people one knows and people one doesn't. One shouldn't cheapen the former by feigning intimacy with the latter. Tony Horwitz
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Watch out for those who celebrate your success with bitterness in their hearts!   surely, they'll hail you for what you are, and hate you for what you have become. Michael Bassey Johnson
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A stupid is one who thinks that those in power today had clandestine means of getting there, yet wants to get there without thinking of the clandestine route they would be taking. Michael Bassey Johnson
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Is it your implication that no good will come of this expedition?’‘ Oh it will, sir; there’s no denying that.’ Captain Chillingworth’s words emerged very slowly, as if they had been pulled up from a deep well of bitterness. ‘I am sure it will do a great deal of good for some of us. But I doubt I’ll be of that number, or that many Chinamen will. The truth is, sir, that men do what their power permits them to do. We are no different from the Pharaohs or the Mongols: the difference is only that when we kill people we feel compelled to pretend that it is for some higher cause. It is this pretence of virtue, I promise you, that will never be forgiven by history. Amitav Ghosh
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Courage?" I gave a very soft laugh. "I find courage is just another of life's illusions. In the end, we all do what we must. Anthony Ryan
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Life is for those that deserve it. Those kings amongst men who can climb out of barrels and will dare to break through glass walls and to transcend all of this whatever it is, these eyes to the ground, this pretence, acting only as is expected and never as is intended. We have been told what is acceptable in what situation and so we take heed. This is not living. In the real world, in nature, there is no need to pretend. There is no place for it. Oli Anderson
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Pretend to be poor in reality and you'll notice a decrease in your friends list and request. Michael Bassey Johnson
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I don't see anything other than pretensions and low mentality in women who make a man run after a hole that would soon be inhabited by termites and worms. Michael Bassey Johnson
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Stupidity is a pretence to know unkowns, where as learning is a solution Wilson M. Mukama
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There is no compromise when it comes to someones delicate feelings, the only way out is to stop pretending and set yourself free from someones life. Michael Bassey Johnson
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Some friends are like sunny days, with false flames, oozing from afar, coming near without a dime. Michael Bassey Johnson
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Someone who smiles too much with you can sometime frown too much with you at your back. Michael Bassey Johnson
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In a world of selfie-addiction smile usually is the brand name for an essential drug called pretense Munia Khan
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The only known technique to an imitator is to steal and rephrase, then with a mischievous smile, he said, "i did it", without any confidence and prove. Michael Bassey Johnson
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Act as if you don't know me, and i will make it seem as though you don't exist. Michael Bassey Johnson
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Deception is the natural defence of the weak against the strong, and the South used it for many years against its conquerors; to-day it must be prepared to see its black proletariat turn that same two-edged weapon against itself. And how natural this is! The death of Denmark Vesey and Nat Turner proved long since to the Negro the present hopelessness of physical defence. Political defence is becoming less and less available, and economic defence is still only partially effective. But there is a patent defence at hand, –the defence of deception and flattery, of cajoling and lying. It is the same defence which peasants of the Middle Age used and which left its stamp on their character for centuries. To-day the young Negro of the South who would succeed cannot be frank and outspoken, honest and self-assertive, but rather he is daily tempted to be silent and wary, politic and sly; he must flatter and be pleasant, endure petty insults with a smile, shut his eyes to wrong; in too many cases he sees positive personal advantage in deception and lying. His real thoughts, his real aspirations, must be guarded in whispers; he must not criticise, he must not complain. Patience, humility, and adroitness must, in these growing black youth, replace impulse, manliness, and courage. With this sacrifice there is an economic opening, and perhaps peace and some prosperity. Without this there is riot, migration, or crime. Nor is this situation peculiar to the Southern United States, is it not rather the only method by which undeveloped races have gained the right to share modern culture? The price of culture is a Lie. W.E.B. Du Bois
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Those who pretend as if they don't love you, are the ones who would hate to see you love another person. Michael Bassey Johnson
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Heroes are hero no matter if everybody is watching them or nobody watching them. Amit Kalantri
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JAY: Why is a story more upfront than life? L E N O R E: It just seems more honest, somehow. J A Y: Honest meaning closer to the truth? L E N O R E: I smell trap. J A Y: I smell breakthrough. The truth is that there's no difference between a life and a story? But a life pretends to be something more? But it really isn't more? L E N O R E: I would kill for a shower. David Foster Wallace
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Don't pretend to be what you're not, instead, pretend to what you want to be, it is not pretence, it is a journey to self realization. Michael Bassey Johnson
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There's a difference between playing and playing games. The former is an act of joy, the latter – an act. Vera Nazarian
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THE MYTH OF THE GOOD OL BOY AND THE NICE GAL The good of boy myth and the nice gal are a kind of social conformity myth. They create a real paradox when put together with the "rugged individual" part of the Success Myth. How can I be a rugged individual, be my own man and conform at the same time? Conforming means "Don't make a wave", "Don't rock the boat". Be a nice gal or a good ol' boy. This means that we have to pretend a lot. "We are taught to be nice and polite. We are taught that these behaviors (most often lies) are better than telling the truth. Our churches, schools, and politics are rampant with teaching dishonesty (saying things we don't mean and pretending to feel ways we don't feel). We smile when we feel sad; laugh nervously when dealing with grief; laugh at jokes we don't think are funny; tell people things to be polite that we surely don't mean." - Bradshaw On: The Family . John Bradshaw
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The game never changes, you must be in the secret before you are shown to the public. Michael Bassey Johnson
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Incessant smiling is one of the deadly tools used by someone whose intent is to make others cry. Michael Bassey Johnson
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We wrap up our violent and mysterious world in a pretence of understanding. We paper over the voids in our comprehension with science or religion, and make believe that order has been imposed. And, for the most of it, the fiction works. We skim across surfaces, heedless of the depths below. Dragonflies flitting over a lake, miles deep, pursuing erratic paths to pointless ends. Until that moment when something from the cold unknown reaches up to take us. The biggest lies we save for ourselves. We play a game in which we are gods, in which we make choices, and the current follows in our wake. We pretend a separation from the wild. Pretend that a man's control runs deep, that civilization is more than a veneer, that reason will be our companion in dark places. . Mark Lawrence
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We wrap up our violent and mysterious world in a pretence of understanding. We paper over the voids in our comprehension with science or religion, and make believe that order has been imposed. And, for the most of it, the fiction works. We skim across surfaces, heedless of the depths below. Dragonflies flitting over a lake, miles deep, pursuing erratic paths to pointless ends. Until that moment when something from the cold unknown reaches up to take us. The biggest lies we save for ourselves. We play a game in which we are gods, in which we make choices, and the current follows in our wake. We pretend a separation from the wild. Pretend that a man's control runs deep, that civilization is more than a veneer, that reason will be our companion in dark places. . Mark Lawrence
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It is the unspeakable misery of a life so false as his, that it steals the pith and substance out of whatever realities there are around us, and which were meant by Heaven to be the spirit’s joy and nutriment. To the untrue man, the whole universe is false–it is impalpable–it shrinks to nothing within his grasp. And he himself in so far as he shows himself in a false light, becomes a shadow, or, indeed, ceases to exist. Nathaniel Hawthorne
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So I slap on that smile and pretend everything’s okay even though it’s not. Libba Bray
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Millions upon millions will attain your ceremony, but don't think all of them are in a ceremonius mood. Michael Bassey Johnson
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You should never leave your "house of bread", under any pretence, whether it is oppression, troubles or hardships. Sunday Adelaja