34 Quotes About Parenting Teen

It is no better if your son rapes a woman than when your daughter gets raped. It is equally painful, may be more.~ Rudransh Kashyap Kirtida Gautam

In the moment of decision, may you hear the voice of the Creator saying, ‘This is right road, travel on it. Lailah Gifty Akita

Identify your Radar — it’s your brain functioning optimally; not a vague intuition or cosmic sixth sense. Train your Radar in key areas like: evaluating people, personal safety, healthy relationships, physical and mental well-being, money and credit cards, career choice, how to get organized. Meet the Radar Jammers. They have the power to turn down or turn off our clear thinking Radars.
Some are well known: alcohol and drugs, peer pressure, infatuation, sleep deprivation.
 Others are surprising: showing off, fake complexity, anger, unthinking religions, the need for speed, dangerous personality disorders, and even fast food! 
 Learn reasonable approaches and specific techniques to deal with them all. . C.B. Brooks

Checking in on what our kids are doing online isn't helicoptering, it's parenting. Galit Breen

The absolute best way to raise kind kids, is to be kind parents. Galit Breen

Checking in on what our kids are doing online isn't 'helicoptering, ' it's 'parenting. Galit Breen

To teach our kids what they need to know online, we have to talk to them off line. Galit Breen

You truly do have the power to reach your goals. Beverly K. Bachel

You’re unstoppable as long as you keep taking the next step. Beverly K. Bachel

Your supporters can help you think in new ways, solve problems, and burst through barriers. Beverly K. Bachel

There are 1, 440 minutes in every day. How are you using yours? Beverly K. Bachel

To make your goals savvy, keep them both personal (meaningful to you and aligned with your values) and positive (so you feel good about what you’re trying to accomplish. Beverly K. Bachel

If you can find time for [other] activities, you can make time for your goals. Beverly K. Bachel

When going for your goals, staying motivated, enthusiastic, and flexible are daily deeds of daring. Beverly K. Bachel

Attitude plays a bigger role than you may imagine in determining your future success–bigger than talent, money, or popularity. Beverly K. Bachel

The more often you visualize your success and the more details you envision, the more motivated you’ll feel. Beverly K. Bachel

No matter how much (or how little) help someone provides, always say thanks. Thank yous are simple but important. Beverly K. Bachel

It’s up to you to make your dreams real. Beverly K. Bachel

If all else fails, try to get some sleep…whether you realize it or not, getting enough sleep can make it easier to solve problems, control your emotions, and cope with change. Beverly K. Bachel

The biggest regrets people have aren’t about what they did, but what they didn’t do. Beverly K. Bachel

Conscious parenting is not about being perfect, it's about being aware. Aware of what your kids need from you to reach more of their full potential. Alex Urbina

He knocked politely and entered the principal’s office with his dad face in full effect. He put his hand on my shoulder in a way that came off as both stern and proud. He was dad-ing it up for the principal, which I was actually a little grateful for, but it also made me mad. Charlotte Leonetti

The gift of faith given to your children will last longer than any monetary gift. Eve M. Harrell

There is something about being loved and protected by a parent (or guardian) knowing that I can be loved for who I am, not what I can do, or might one day become. Unfortunately it’s not usually like this in every single situation. From time to time, my parents made mistakes during my childhood. Possibly I was the mistake, or unwanted. But I don’t know. I had every material thing that I could have ever wanted, but there was still something missing, as if I felt distanced from my parents, or misunderstood, in the ways that they treated me. At times, I had felt completely loved and accepted by my parents, but for one reason or another, they were unable to care for me, provide for me, in some ways that would have been very important. Sometimes I feel like I am trying to make up for the experiences in life that were absent when I was a child. Jonathan Harnisch

As parents we're meant to help each other out and build each other up. Galit Breen

Embrace your beautiful mess of a life with your child. No matter how hard it gets, do not disengage... Do something–anything–to connect with and guide your child today. Parenting is an adventure of the greatest significance. It is your legacy." - Andy Kerckhoff, from Critical Connection Andy Kerckhoff

Now, the error which many parents commit in the treatment of the individual at this time(adolescense) is, insisting on the same unreasoning obedience as when all he had to do in the way of duty was, to obey the simple laws of "Come when you're called, " and "Do as you're bid! " But a wise parent humours the desire for independent action, so as to become the friend and adviser when his absolute rule shall cease. Elizabeth Gaskell

Sitting on the train I watch the scenery speeding by, notice a cobweb in the top corner of the window, undulating with a gentle breeze I can’t feel. I lean back in my seat and take my book out of the carrier bag. Turning it over in my hand, it feels warm. It feels how I want to feel; full of knowledge, full of the future. The time I’ve spent staying in bed smoking dope I’ve been hibernating, recuperating and gaining strength. I’m weak socially, but being away from other drug users has made me resilient. It’s allowed my mind and body to heal and mend. As if the winter is over, I’ve come out stronger now. I’m on my own. I have the choice of what to do with my life. I’m going to stay clean. I’m going to be the woman I can be. Christine Lewry

Sitting cross-legged on her bed, I watch her take out her gear. She’s been smoking so much the room stinks of it. Over the last few weeks, I’ve seen her do it so often I’ve resisted the urge. It’s surreal, like I’m watching me from outside my body. My willpower is fragile at the best of times, but my resolve is always weaker in the evening. I feel a dread and a revulsion for what I’m about to do, but there’s a stronger feeling, an unutterable longing. I crack.‘ Give us a line, ’ I say. . Christine Lewry

A child s a special possession from God. Lailah Gifty Akita

There will come a time when a person you most likely pushed out through your vagina and nursed from yournipples, whose bottom you wiped, and whose snot and spit you cleaned up over several sleep-starved years will apprehend you with a mixture of boredom and irritation and say, ‘Get a life, Mum.’This would be a good time to remember that a) violence never solved anything; b) teenagers don’t have a full brain yet — the prefrontal cortex that controls the ability to make important distinctions, like who controls the pocket money, only kicks in around the age of twenty-four; and c) you are, in fact, the adult. Joanne Fedler

You will need to stay calm as you witness the candy floss in your daughter’s smile harden into brittle bitchiness. You will need to muster a new resolve as your son’s fascination with Pokémon shifts to porn. You will have to recalibrate your mothering instinct to accommodate the notion that not only do your children poop and burp, they also masturbate, drink and smoke. As their bodies, brains and worlds rearrange themselves, you will need to do your own reshuffling. You will come to see that, though you gave them life, they’re the ones who’ve got a life. They’ve got 1700 friends on Facebook. They’ve got YouTube accounts (with hundreds of sub- scribers), endless social arrangements, concerts, Valentine’s Day dances and Halloween parties. What we have — if we’re lucky — is a ‘Thanks for the ride, Mum, don’t call me, I’ll call you, ’ as they slam the car door and indicate we can run along now. Joanne Fedler

When it comes to generating writing material, teenagers are gold. Their world is a narcissistic, anarchic, paranoid hell of anxieties and stresses about how they look; how popular they are or aren’t; and how fast or slowly, big or small their private parts are growing. As an observer, it’s fantastic. Hilarious, at times. Poignant and heartbreaking. It is all the stuff of great human drama because, before your eyes, you get to witness character transformation. Boy grows into man. Girl grows into woman. Writers strain to make this shit up. But — and here’s the catch — we dare not discuss any of this if we want our kids to trust us or ever talk to us again. And that’s because, lifts and pocket money aside, teenagers crave privacy — the need for which hatches both swiftly and silently while we’re sorting out the laundry. It’s as if they suddenly wake up one day creeped out by the thought of all those years we wiped their butts and helped them put on their undies and they go into lock- down. They smoke us out, put up walls, close their doors, shut down their stories, and waft, earphoned, through our homes in a shroud of hormones and appetite. Their lives — in which, until recently, we participated with Too Much Information and gross oversharing — suddenly become ‘none of our business. Joanne Fedler