100 Quotes About Introvert

Introverts are often thought of as social misfits. They’re seen as quiet, shy, standoffish individuals who prefer the company of their own thoughts to that of others. But while introverts can be misunderstood, they are the ones who truly understand themselves best. These introvert quotes will help you identify your introverted personality (and overcome your shyness), understand what life is like for you, and appreciate the special gifts that come with it.

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A young outcast will often feel that there is something wrong with himself, but as he gets older, grows more confident in who he is, he will adapt, he will begin to feel that there is something wrong with everyone else. Criss Jami
Telling an introvert to go to a party is like...
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Telling an introvert to go to a party is like telling a saint to go to Hell. Criss Jami
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A rumor is a social cancer: it is difficult to contain and it rots the brains of the masses. However, the real danger is that so many people find rumors enjoyable. That part causes the infection. And in such cases when a rumor is only partially made of truth, it is difficult to pinpoint exactly where the information may have gone wrong. It is passed on and on until some brave soul questions its validity; that brave soul refuses to bite the apple and let the apple eat him. Forced to start from scratch for the sake of purity and truth, that brave soul, figuratively speaking, fully amputates the information in order to protect his personal judgment. In other words, his ignorance is to be valued more than the lie believed to be true. . Criss Jami
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I never feel unsafe except for when the majority is on my side. Criss Jami
Whenever they say I am outgoing, I say... We must...
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Whenever they say I am outgoing, I say... We must have met on the dance floor Evy Michaels
There is a certain delightful sort of hope which the...
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There is a certain delightful sort of hope which the introvert can receive only by having company over...the hope that they will leave soon. Criss Jami
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Mais, j’aurai beau supplier, j’aurai beau me révolter, il n’y aura plus rien pour moi ; je ne serai, désormais, ni heureux, ni malheureux. Je ne peux pas ressusciter. Je vieillirai aussi tranquille que je le suis aujourd’hui dans cette chambre où tant d’êtres ont laissé leur trace, où aucun être n’a laissé la sienne. Cette chambre, on la retrouve à chaque pas. C’est la chambre de tout le monde. On croit qu’elle est fermée, non : elle est ouverte aux quatre vents de l’espace. Elle est perdue au milieu des chambres semblables, comme de la lumière dans le ciel, comme un jour dans les jours, comme moi partout. Moi, moi ! Je ne vois plus maintenant que la pâleur de ma figure, aux orbites profondes, enterrée dans le soir, et ma bouche pleine d’un silence qui doucement, mais sûrement, m’étouffe et m’anéantit. Je me soulève sur mon coude comme sur un moignon d’aile. Je voudrais qu’il m’arrivât quelque chose d’infini !. Henri Barbusse
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Betty realized that when it came to relationships with other human beings, she would always feel alone. And yet there was this place — this small special place inside of her — a place where quiet beauty was embraced, a place where memories became fantasies and where fantasies became memories. Like a pebble, Betty could lose herself within this place, this opulent ocean, and yet even if the water were to one day reject her too, even if it were to cast her back up onto its shores, she knew that she would catch the light of the sun again. Heather Babcock
Because there are hundreds of different ways to say one...
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Because there are hundreds of different ways to say one thing, I, being a writer, songwriter, and poet, speak childishly and incoherently. In speech there is so much to decide in so little time. Criss Jami
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After college, I started working in the gallery and found myself surrounded by a whole new set of people who had not yet grown accustomed to my antisocial tendencies, who had not yet learned to expect me to say no, and stopped asking. I was invited to go drinking and dancing again, and so, I tried. Sara Baume
Introverts don’t see life as one big cocktail party. We’re...
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Introverts don’t see life as one big cocktail party. We’re content with just a few meaningful relationships. Jenn Granneman
Sometimesi don't haveenough soulin my cheeksto show myface to theworld.
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Sometimesi don't haveenough soulin my cheeksto show myface to theworld. Curtis Tyrone Jones
Be silent & you are considered on idiot. Be voluble...
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Be silent & you are considered on idiot. Be voluble & you are considered a nuisance. The perfect balance between speaking and remaining silent makes you a gentleman! Uma Shanker
I’ll read my books and I’ll drink coffee and I’ll...
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I’ll read my books and I’ll drink coffee and I’ll listen to music, and I’ll bolt the J.d. Salinger
I wish I could think about nothing, but the books...
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I wish I could think about nothing, but the books all the time. I have never had an alcoholic rampage because of thinking about books too much... Robert Gacho
As an introvert, you crave intimate moments and deep connections--and...
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As an introvert, you crave intimate moments and deep connections--and those usually aren't found in a crowd. Jenn Granneman
Introverts live in two worlds: We visit the world of...
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Introverts live in two worlds: We visit the world of people, but solitude and the inner world will always be our home. Jenn Granneman
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I thought how true it was that the world was a delightful place if it were not for the people, and how more than true it was that people were not worth troubling about, and that wise men should set their affections upon nothing smaller than cities, heavenly or otherwise, and countrysides which are always heavenly. Katherine Mansfield
Some people think the real them is whoever they are...
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Some people think the real them is whoever they are when they're not around other people. Garth Risk Hallberg
There is no window to look outside. There is no...
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There is no window to look outside. There is no window to look within. Open the doors. Sanhita Baruah
Nothing is as irritating to a shy man as a...
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Nothing is as irritating to a shy man as a confident girl. Mokokoma Mokhonoana
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I don't need to be vocal about my intentions, I am just intentional about my actions. Janna Cachola
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My idea of a fun night was diving into a massive pile of To Be Read pile of books stacked near my dresser... I was the girl who loved everything geeky. Jeff Sampson
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If we can't have world peace, I'll settle for a quiet room. Joyce Rachelle
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When a bookworm finally decides to leave the house, perhaps to explore some literary destination in one of her novels, she will be surprised to know that there is a volatile, often antagonistic force in the real world known as the weather. Joyce Rachelle
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Sitting in the brightly lit library, surrounded by books, in total silence, that was ma personal zenith. Irvine Welsh
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The internet is where some people go to show their true intelligence; others, their hidden stupidity. Criss Jami
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There is this common notion that people are shallow and ignorant until they go out and see the world. I, on the other hand, went out and in comparison realized I was in pretty good standing. Criss Jami
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I know I can't own a hilltop, a meadow, or a mountainside. But keeping it a secret somehow makes it mine. Joyce Rachelle
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You might be an introvert if you were ready to go home before you left the house. Criss Jami
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Ah, yes, the mix tape. The mating call of the introvert. Sophia Dembling
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A poor but confident man is as hard to find as a rich but shy man. Mokokoma Mokhonoana
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It is so easy at times for a lonely individual to begin fantasizing about what the people outside are saying about him and, in result, irrationally and fearfully, and sometimes angrily, fancy himself a villain. Criss Jami
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An introvert talks more than an extrovert because when the mouth is closed, the mind is opened. Michael Bassey Johnson
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I recognize the power of silence in an extroverted world but there is a time for silence and a time to speak up about things that matter that continue to be left unsaid. Matthew Donnelly
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Sitting in a corner, I live like a toad Oh! How I love my room: my tiny abode! Here I wake up; and I sleep in here The world far away; yet virtually near Not that I'm jailed in this place of grace Just don't want to face another face Munia Khan
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I’m going inside of myself and never coming out. Jennifer Elisabeth
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Quiet people always know more than they seem. Although very normal, their inner world is by default fronted mysterious and therefore assumed weird. Never underestimate the social awareness and sense of reality in a quiet person; they are some of the most observant, absorbent persons of all. Criss Jami
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To develop understanding and compassion for who we are as introverts, we must be able to explore who we are, what makes us happy, what makes us unhappy, and what oursubsequent needs are. Aletheia Luna
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Of all individuals, the hated, the shunned, and the peculiar are arguably most themselves. They wear no masks whatsoever in order to be accepted and liked; they do seem most guarded, but only by their own hands: as compared to the populace, they are naked. Criss Jami
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It is the nature of physics to hear the loudest of mouths over the most comprehensive ones. Criss Jami
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There is something quite wonderful about sharing a secret. Joyce Rachelle
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Invisibility can be good as a superpower. But psychiatry reveals people don't like it very much. Joyce Rachelle
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She didn't realize she was in a prison until she collided with the bars. Joyce Rachelle
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Jung was the first to propose the model of psychic energy, suggesting that for introverts, energy flows inward, while for extroverts, energy flows outward. Introverts tend to embrace this definition. It fels right for us because we know exactly what it feels like to have our energy depleted when we have sent too much flowing outward. Sophia Dembling
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I tell myself I’m fine on my own, but am I? No friends to fall back on, no relationships, no support. Left to my own devices, I have no devices. Jael McHenry
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Don't assume you are more creative or better than anyone, because some people with better stuffs are just pretending to be dumb for a while. Michael Bassey Johnson
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If personal space is vital to creativity, so is freedom from "peer pressure". Susan Cain
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I love introverts. They don't waste words. Excessive extroverts can be very wasteful. I don't trust them in any kind of intricate or delicate matter. Alexei Maxim Russell
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Silence might be a shout for the truth. It might be the speech that someday, in its truest, most uncontaminated, unadulterated state, all will be revealed. Criss Jami
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Going to church is not a sign of going to God, if you think he is omnipresent, he is right there in your soul and bedroom. Michael Bassey Johnson
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The humble ones are always learning and improving, and their secret is always that it's a secret. Criss Jami
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I need a break after school, " she told me later. "School is hard because a lot of people are in the room, so you get tired. I freak out if my mom plans a play date without telling me, because I don't want to hurt my friends' feelings. But I'd rather stay home. At a friend's house you have to do the things other people want to do. I like hanging out with my mom after school because I can learn from her. She's been alive longer than me. We have thoughtful conversations. I like having conversations because they make people happy. Susan Cain
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The INFJ is able to tune into underlying meanings and gain deeper awareness of your situation. They can feel unexpressed emotions and pick up on small inflections which others may require you to spell out. INFJs do not only listen, they hear, comprehend and engage in your words. Jennifer Soldner
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I can breathe easier now that the appointments are behind me. I missed them all, through deliberate negligence, Having waited for the urge to go, which I knew wouldn’t come. I’m free, and against organized, clothed society. I’m naked and plunge into the water of my imagination. Fernando Pessoa
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The highest men are calm, silent and unknown... The true masters seldom reveal themselves, except in the vibrations the leave behind, and upon which the lesser gurus build their doctrines. Tom Robbins
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If I don't talk about it, it's either very displeasing or very precious to me. Joyce Rachelle
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The exaggerated dopamine sensitivity of the introvert leads one to believe that when in public, introverts, regardless of its validity, often feel to be the center of (unwanted) attention hence rarely craving attention. Extroverts, on the other hand, seem to never get enough attention. So on the flip side it seems as though the introvert is in a sense very external and the extrovert is in a sense very internal - the introvert constantly feels too much 'outerness' while the extrovert doesn't feel enough 'outerness'. Criss Jami
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When we take into consideration the needs of both ourselves and others, we communicate honestly, compassionately and effectively. Aletheia Luna
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Perhaps a seemingly dull, boring person is not a person who lacks personality, but rather a person with so much personality most other things bore them. Criss Jami
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Shrinking in a corner, pressed into the wall;do they know I'm present, am I here at all? Is there a written rule book, that tells you how to be–all the right things to talk about–that everyone has but me? Slowly I am withering–a flowered deprived of sun;longing to belong to–somewhere or someone. Lang Leav
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How is it that some celebrities, whom the average person would believe to have all the popularity a human being could want, still admit to feeling lonely? It is quite naive to assume that popularity is the remedy for loneliness. Loneliness does not necessarily equal physical solitude, it is the inability to be oneself and rightfully represented as oneself. Criss Jami
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If you are lonely when you are alone, you are in poor company. Bryant McGill
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When the chips are down, you are alone, and loneliness can be terrifying. Fortunately, I've always had a chum I could call. And I love to be alone. It doesn't bother me one bit. I’m my own company. Audrey Hepburn
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I'm still shy, " I admit, pulling the sleeves over my hands, "and I might always be, I don't know, but I think you can be shy and still feel okay about yourself at the same time. Megan Jacobson
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Actually, judging by Pinterest alone, I'm pretty sure a lot of people would look forward to hanging out in such a beautiful library. Just not people Peter knows. He thinks I'm so quirky. I'm not planning on being the one to break the news to him that I'm actually not that quirky, that in fact lots of people like to stay home and bake cookies and scrapbook and hang out in libraries. Most of them are probably in their fifties, but still. I like the way he looks at me, like I am a wood nymph that he happened upon one day and just had to take home to keep. Jenny Han
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My people, we stay indoors. We have keyboards. We have darkness. Neil Gaiman
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The idea that you are not good enough and that people will not like you is something that has been ingrained into your mind over many years. You have hundreds of experiences that you can call up as evidence of the fact that people will not like you -- and that things will not turn out well. These ideas are incredibly convincing. They compel us to hesitate, to shy away, and to avoid the situations -- and people -- that we find frightening. This sets up a reinforcing cycle, where we avoid reaching out, don't get good responses from others as a result, and then gain further evidence that we are not worthy. In order to truly overcome your social anxiety at a deep, gut level, you must repeatedly take bold action. It is only through trying something new, and with a different perspective, that you learn to see the world and the people around you in a different light. . Aziz Gazipura
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..And suddenly, from behind me, I hear the metaphysically abrupt arrival of the office boy. I feel like I could kill him for barging in on what I wasn't thinking. I turn around and look at him with a silence full of hatred, tense with latent homicide, my mind already hearing the voice he'll use to tell me something or other. He smiles from the other side of the room and says 'Good afternoon' in a loud voice. I hate him like the universe. My eyes are sore from imagining. Fernando Pessoa
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My husband says this longing for isolation is not a good quality, that if I wanted to be a hermit I should have moved to the West Coast and adopted a lot of cats, not gotten married and had children that demand to be fed several times a day. Anna White
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I'm self-sufficient. I spend a lot of time on my own and I shut off quite easily. When I communicate, I communicate 900 per cent, then I shut off, which scares people sometimes. Unknown
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Extroverts communicate well with others, Introverts communicate well with themselves Pablo
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I never went downstairs to join my housemates around the television. I cooked dinner later than everyone else and carried the plate up to my bedroom. I knew they must have thought me aloof, or a little bit eccentric, or maybe even unkind, but I didn't care. Once the kitchen door swung shut behind me, I was alone, and so everything was okay. Sara Baume
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How difficult it is to find solitude in a world that constantly demands your attention. Joyce Rachelle
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Healthy introspection, without undermining oneself; it is a rare gift to venture into the unexplored depths of the self, without delusions or fictions, but with an uncorrupted gaze. Friedrich Nietzsche
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For her a day of pampering meant comic books, black liquorice, serious exercise, veggie curry and, above all, solitude. Salla Simukka
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Society is commonly too cheap. We meet at very short intervals, not having had time to acquire any new value for each other. We meet at meals three times a day, and give each other a new taste of that musty old cheese that we are. We have had to agree on a certain set of rules, called etiquette and politeness, to make this frequent meeting tolerable and that we need not come to open war. We meet at the post office, and at the sociable, and at the fireside every night; we live thick and are in each other's way, and stumble over one another, and I think that we thus lose some respect for one another. Henry David Thoreau
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That was the problem with the outside world, the human world. The whole thing was made up puzzles, of a language she didn't quite speak. Lauren Oliver
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I was beginning to realize that what I wanted was the noise of people living near me, but not near enough to cause any inaudible noises to show up because I knew that those sorts of noises often shift into inaudible minor chords and I am unable to deal with that shift. Catherine Lacey
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Anxiety kicked in. I lacked people skills all my life. Any normal human interaction was foreign to me. I don’t know what to say, to not look like a major dork or something. I am weird like that. Always were. The dead — that’s a whole other world we’re talking about. They can’t interfere with my everyday life, other than to annoy me. I can be myself around the dead. The dead are good. The living? Not so much. Tia Artemis
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Abbey relaxed, grateful not only that someone had thought to throw a party for her, but that she had been able to escape attending. Emily Ann Benedict
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What does an introvert do when he's left alone? He stays alone. Jenni FerrariAdler
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Nobody enjoys the company of others as intensely as someone who usually avoids the company of others. Mokokoma Mokhonoana
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Most things look better from a distance... And as a matter of fact, so do most people. - The Spook, pg 435 Joseph Delaney
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People can't stand to be alone with themselves, so they bother me when I'm trying to be alone with myself. James JeanPierre
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Strong introverts crave alone time (I-time) as if it were oxygen in the lungs for survival. I can become short of breath from inadequate alone time. I-time is non-negotiable for a high-functioning introvert. Without I-time, an introvert can suffer from distraction, imbalance, exhaustion, and irritability. Devora Zack
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There's nothing more exciting than ideas. Susan Cain
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Yet today we make room for a remarkably narrow range of personality styles. We’re told that to be great is to be bold, to be happy is to be sociable. Susan Cain
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The introvert's dilemma is that we might not get a lot of invitations for the kind of socializing we like best--small, mellow gatherings. In other words, the kind of socializing other introverts like to do. Because, let's face it: We're introverts. We're all at home waiting to be invited to do introvert things. Which means, of course, that none of us are getting the invitations we crave. It's an introvert standoff. Sophia Dembling
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An extrovert looks at a stack of books and sees a stack of papers, while an introvert looks at the same stack and sees a soothing source of escape. Eric Samuel Timm
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I enjoyed writing. Perhaps it was because I hardly heard the sound of my own voice. My written words were my voice, speaking, singing,. .. I was there on the page Jenny Moss
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I felt as if each person within visual range were slowly draining the life from me. We were all connected, and the more them there were, the more I wanted to crawl under a table and cry. Shaun David Hutchinson
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The Hermit is an important tarot card with much to tell us, but he tends not to be so welcome around the bonfire. Thomm Quackenbush
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For the to see you shine, you must stay far way, for you are like the sun; when you’re too close, your light make them blind. And when you’re too far, they seek you. So let them seek you. They’re getting your light regardless, but appreciating your presence is different from recognizing your existence. If they don’t appreciate your presence, they may never recognize your absence. Najwa Zebian
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I'm neither extrovert nor introvert. I'm just an imperfect example of an ambivert. Irfa Rahat
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…while the outside world was full of danger, I knew my interior. I was certain that I could oust an intruder there. Gail Carson Levine
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But the most important thing to know about being an introvert is that there’s nothing wrong with you. You’re not broken because you’re quiet. It’s okay to stay home on a Friday night instead of going to a party. Being an introvert is a perfectly normal 'thing' to be. Jenn Granneman
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You are like an ocean: quietly ebbing and flowing to the rhythm of life, but wildly expansive and profoundly powerful. You are boundless. You are whole. Your quietness is your strength. Your depth is your advantage. Aletheia Luna
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He began to prefer talking on the phone to actually getting together with someone, preferred the bodilessness of it, and started to turn down social engagements. He didn't want to actually sit across from someone in a restaurant, look at their face, and eat food. He wanted to turn away, not deal with the face, have the waitress bring them two tin cans and some string so they could just converse, in a faceless dialogue. Lorrie Moore