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It is a good rule in life never to apologize. The right sort of people do not want apologies, and the wrong sort take a mean advantage of them.P.g. Wodehouse
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If an apology is followed by an excuse or a reason, it means they are going to commit same mistake again they just apologized for.Amit Kalantri
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Never apologize for showing your feelings. When you do, you are apologizing for the truth.Unknown
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He sighed. "I don't think an apology will do, Mercy. Because an apology implies that you wouldn't do it again. And, under the circumstances, you wouldn't do anything differently, would you?" No.Patricia Briggs
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Don't be sorry; Don't you cry. It's enough That you tried. I love you, And that won't change. It's not your fault Things worked out this wayMargo T. Rose
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Liars are highly unlikely to admit their lies, never mind apologize for the hurt they’ve caused. Liars don’t genuinely apologize. Deceit has become their full-out lifestyle. They are centered on themselves with no thoughts of the consequences of their lies. In cowardly style, they tell more lies to try and cover their tracks. They are not good at admitting they actually have shortcomings.Cathy Burnham Martin
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Apologies require taking full responsibility. No half-truths, no partial admissions, no rationalizations, no finger pointing, and no justifications belong in any apology.Cathy Burnham Martin
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The only bearable thing about being human is that you can change, the second you feel like. Get it through your head that you changed, and cut yourself some slack before you fucking choke to death from all the apologies in your throat.C.M. McKenna
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Apologies often cannot undo pain; but they can acknowledge it. And part of the cruelty of bullying is that the bruises it leaves are on the inside–it’s a hidden form of violence, shrouded by shame.Unknown
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Charles realized that if he were going to apologize to Chrestomanci, he had better do it at once. He turned around to say it. But the folds had already rippled flat and nothing was the same anymore....Diana Wynne Jones
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Why do women say "I'm sorry" so much? One of my favorite self-love sermons is this: Resist saying 'I'm sorry' so often. You are not "sorry." You are magnificent beyond measure, perfect in your imperfections, and wonderfully made.Abiola Abrams
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One thing I don’t needis any more apologiesi got sorry greetin me at my front dooryou can keep yrsi don’t know what to do wit emthey don’t open doorsor bring the sun backthey don’t make me happyor get a mornin paperdidn’t nobody stop usin my tears to wash carscuz a sorry.Ntozake Shange
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You can edit what you write. Why not edit what you say? If it hurts somebody, you can still offer an apology or withdraw your statementsBangambiki Habyarimana
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The idea we came up with, well before we left, was something we coined Performance Literature. Excuse the use of that second word, because I realize it's presumptuous. Also, excuse the first word, and the term in general.Dave Eggers
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If there were past misdeeds, I do not believe we should nag or repeat them, never mind throw them in someone’s face. If they sincerely apologized and we genuinely forgave them, we must move on. Learn from mistakes, but move on. If we bring them up and toss them at the offender, we may not have actually forgiven them, even if we claim we have.Cathy Burnham Martin
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Courageous people do not fear forgiving, for the sake of peace.Nelson Mandela
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Perhaps there can be no thanks nor any blame, but only recognition of the forces that brought us and bound us to our inevitable fates.Robin Hobb
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What man ever openly apologizes for slander? It is not so much a feeling of slander as it is that of a massive lie, a misdeed not only to the slandered but also to those manipulated in the process. He has made them all, every one, his enemies, thereupon he is so overwhelmed with guilt that he will deny it until his grave.Criss Jami
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When a person tells you that you hurt them, you don’t get to decide that you didn’t.Louis C.K.
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In order to apologize–really apologize, and not just utter some words–for something one has done or failed to do, one has not only to acknowledge responsibility for but express sincere sorrow and regret over this action or inaction. One can apologize only for acts for which one has no excuse. If one has an excuse, there is nothing to apologize for, even if there is something to feel sorry about ('I'm sorry that you are hurt, ' even 'I'm sorry that my actions hurt you, ' is quite different from 'I'm sorry that I hurt you'). A genuine apology thus involves a rather raw exposure of the apologizer: Having done the deed, one now not only reiterates having done it, but strips away any suggestion that there are extenuating circumstances that could relieve one of blame; it must be clear that he regrets what he has done and feels sorrow over what he was wrought. He doesn't just wish things were otherwise; he fully acknowledges his role in bringing them to this sorry state.Elizabeth V. Spelman
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Apologies, one loses perspective after spending a week in a brothel.Christopher Moore
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I always apologized for my home to protect myself so people wouldn't think I was a slob, or at least so they would know that I acknowledge I can be a slob and that I'm not okay with it and that really I have much higher standards.. .. When I apologize for my home, I'm declaring to all within earshot that I'm not content. That I'm silently keeping score.Myquillyn Smith
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A truly humble apology works to part storm clouds, calm rough seas, and bring on the soft lights of dawn; it has the power to change a person's world.Richelle E. Goodrich
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Don't apologize for doing what you thought was best. All you can ever do, is your best. Even if that doesn't work out, don't diminish your efforts. Don't diminish your intent. Don't apologize for being human. Don't take on guilt that isn't yours. We are all growing, learning and evolving. Take the lesson forward.Akiroq Brost
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You must remember, though, that most normal people have never seen an orogene, let alone had to do business with one, and–” She spreads her hands. “Isn’t it understandable that we might be… uncomfortable?” “Discomfort is understandable. It’s the rudeness that isn’t.” Rust this. This woman doesn’t deserve the effort of her explanation. Syen decides to save that for someone who matters. “And that’s a really shitty apology. ‘I’m sorry you’re so abnormal that I can’t manage to treat you like a human being. .N.K. Jemisin
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The first reaction is surely the most natural one, but not always the most correct one; thereupon, the invention of apologies.Criss Jami
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In my dream, people apologized for things that were about to happen, and lit candles by inhaling.Jonathan Safran Foer
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I'm sorry I missed the meeting and hurt your little feely-weels okay?Nenia Campbell
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Apologize: To lay the foundation for a future offence.Ambrose Bierce
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I'm so sorry. I am so sorry for everything.Marie Lu
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You broke her heart in person–you fix it in person!R.J. Gonzales
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Proper apologies have three parts:1) What I did was wrong.2) I feel badly that I hurt you.3) How do I make this better?Randy Pausch
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Halfhearted or insincere apologies are often worse than not apologizing at all because recipients find them insulting. If you've done something wrong in your dealings with another person, it's as if there's an infection in your relationship. A good apology is like an antibiotic; a bad apology is like rubbing salt I the wound.Randy Pausch
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If other people owe you an apology, and your words of apology to them are proper and heartfelt, you still may not hear from them for a while. After all, what are the odds that they get to the right emotional place to apologize at the exact moment you do? So just be patient. Many times in my career, I saw students apologize, and then several days later, their teammates came around. Your patience will be both appreciated and rewarded. .Randy Pausch