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Arise, my friend — the world is wailing for kindness — it is wailing for compassion — it is wailing for love.Abhijit Naskar
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Civilized are not those who never make mistakes — civilized are those who learn from their mistakes instead of trying to justify them.Abhijit Naskar
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The more we humanize the society, the more we will become humans.Abhijit Naskar
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What is the point of being humans, if our actions scream with more bestiality than humanity!Abhijit Naskar
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Humanity is not a word my friend. It is a symbol — a symbol of hope — a symbol of wisdom — yet this very symbol has become disgraced by our faults and deluded justification of mistakes.Abhijit Naskar
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Compatibility doesn't determine the fate of a marriage, how you deal with the incompatibilities, does.Abhijit Naskar
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If you want to be drunk, become drunk with an idea.Abhijit Naskar
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If you want to be drunk, become drunk with an idea. If you want pleasure, have pleasure from the pursuit of your passion. If you want to be indoctrinated, then be so by the natural law of humanism.Abhijit Naskar
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Two married partners do not just live with each other, they live in each other, neurologically speaking.Abhijit Naskar
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When two people fall in love, they not only give up their genuine authority over their own lives, but also, they become mutual authorities of the collective life that they build together.Abhijit Naskar
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Do not seek for the best partner, but seek for the person who makes you a better version of yourself.Abhijit Naskar
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A healthy world is made of healthy nations. A healthy nation is made of healthy families. And a healthy family can only be raised on the foundation of a monogamous relationship.Abhijit Naskar
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A healthy marriage acts as the vessel of wellbeing and stability for both partners as well as the children.Abhijit Naskar
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Let me tell you a story. There was a student who asked his teacher, what is love? The teacher said go into the field and bring me the most beautiful flower. The student returned with no flower at hand and said, “I found the most beautiful flower in the field but I didn't pick it up for I might find a better one, but when I returned to the place, it was gone.” We always look for the best in life. When we finally see it, we take it for granted and after some time start expecting a better one, not knowing that it's the best for us. .Abhijit Naskar
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Cheating is an innate evolutionarily programmed desire, especially in men, but it is not a desire that cannot be controlled.Abhijit Naskar
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A human is the one, who would give up a thousand Cleopatras to be with the person he or she loves.Abhijit Naskar
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Cheating in relationship is a sign of self-regulation failure. When it happens ones, it is a mistake. When it happens twice, it is unfortunate. But when it happens thrice or more, it is a pattern indicating primitive, uncivilized inhuman behavior.Abhijit Naskar
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Try to respond to your partner instead of reacting.Abhijit Naskar
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Marriage is not a competition. Marriage is completion of two souls.Abhijit Naskar
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True love is born out of the pyre of two committed souls.Abhijit Naskar
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Monogamy is not a choice, it is a responsibility of a genuine human.Abhijit Naskar
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Either one is promiscuous or in a relationship - it cannot be both at the same time.Abhijit Naskar
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Sex is only a tool in love, not love itself.Abhijit Naskar
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Polygamy is about sex, whereas monogamy is about love.Abhijit Naskar
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Promoting promiscuity in this evolved and civilized society is actually like signing the Declaration, that says:“ I hereby renounce my membership of humankind, since I am neither human nor kind. I declare that I no longer belong to the modern human species, i.e. the Homo sapiens. From now on I shall be counted among the swingers of the animal kingdom, such as the bonobo or montane vole. I am simply an arrogant philandering savage.Abhijit Naskar
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Polygamy is a luxury of the cave-people, and monogamy is an existential responsibility of the civilized society.Abhijit Naskar
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True love is 20 percent care and 80 percent understanding.Abhijit Naskar
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Rise to become human again, my friend. Become the human, that talks humans, acts humans and lives human.Abhijit Naskar
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What is natural, needs to be looked upon, scrutinized and reshaped by each generation of the world, to make it compatible with the path of progress of a civilized society.Abhijit Naskar
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We biologists often use the phrase “Mother Nature” to refer to the entire system of Nature that we see around us, but it is not really an entity, and it does not have any real concern for any of its living creatures — it lives on with or without us; it is in our human psychology to impose a human-like identity upon any grand system that we encounter around us — it gives us a sense of closeness to that system and makes us feel an essential part of it. When I say, Mother Nature designed us, or programmed us, I am simply referring to the process of natural selection.Abhijit Naskar
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Remember my friend, uncontrolled alcohol, uncontrolled casual sex and mindless indoctrination are not signs of progress, they are signs of drowning into the abyss of mental and physical degradation.Abhijit Naskar
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A relationship is not just about sex — it is much more than that. Sex is only a tool in love, not love itself.Abhijit Naskar
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Do not let the evil become our masters, but make the good reign upon the world.Abhijit Naskar
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What is the point of having a civilization, if we do not practice being civilized!Abhijit Naskar
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Progress begins when you liberate your mind from the shackles of your ingrained tendencies of authoritarianism — the tendencies of greed — the tendencies of hatred, rage and lust.Abhijit Naskar
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Our mind has evolved in such a way that new wants keep appearing in it relentlessly. But do not confuse them with needs. Needs are necessity, but wants are luxury.Abhijit Naskar
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Our mistakes rewire our brain and open up new gateways of perception.Abhijit Naskar
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A philanderer cannot be a parent - a parent cannot be a philanderer.Abhijit Naskar
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Philanderers and swingers can see nothing beyond the needs of their genitals. Sexual craving is a part of our biology, but it is not who we are.Abhijit Naskar
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Sometimes, humanity surprises me with all its lack of control over the primordial urges. These innate urges are the biological traits that make us similar to the rest of the animal kingdom. But the modern qualities that make us superior to all the animals are intellect and self-control.Abhijit Naskar
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There is a difference between what you want, and what you need.Abhijit Naskar