Quotes From "Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat To Dreamgirl-A Womans Guide To Holding Her Own In A Relationship" By Sherry Argov

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That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you -- until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from "whence" he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy..and yes..your emotional stability..those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have. Sherry Argov
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Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion - be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore, it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone else's standards - only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently. Sherry Argov
Anytime a woman competes with another woman she demeans herself.
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Anytime a woman competes with another woman she demeans herself. Sherry Argov
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Once you start laughing, you start healing. Sherry Argov
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He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. Sherry Argov
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Truly powerful people don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage someone who doesn't give it to them. Sherry Argov
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If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from your partner. Sherry Argov
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If she has six good points and you have one semigood little point, place all of the emphasis on your one semigood little point. Sherry Argov
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And remember, it's always her fault. That's your story and you're sticking to it. Sherry Argov
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If she is clearly right, find fault with her that has nothing to do with the incident, and use that. Sherry Argov
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Many people lack the basic equipment to be in a relationship and there's nothing you can do to change it. You can't take a skunk and dip it in perfume and hope it becomes a puppy. Eventually, the perfume will wear off and you'll still have a skunk on your hands. Sherry Argov
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Men don't respond to words. What they respond to is "no contact". Sherry Argov
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The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be. Sherry Argov
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Before sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn't. Sherry Argov
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Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves Sherry Argov
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When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still right there. Sherry Argov
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It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt. Sherry Argov
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If a man isn't being nice when you're out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early. Sherry Argov
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Expressing yourself when he takes for granted doesn't work. Sherry Argov
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For a woman the objective is often a committed relationship also known as the destination. For a men roadtrip on the way to the destination is often the more fun. Sherry Argov
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Women are conditioned to give themselves away. Sherry Argov
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Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way. Sherry Argov