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You aren't alive if you aren't in need.Henry Cloud
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This is one of the marks of a truly safe person: they are confrontable.Henry Cloud
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Defensive devaluation is a protective device that makes love bad, trust unimportant and people "no darn good any way". People who have been deeply hurt in their relationships will often devalue love so it doesn't hurt so much. And they often become resigned to never loving again.Henry Cloud
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We grow in part by confessing our faults and weaknesses to each other (James 5:16; Eccl. 4:10). If we are always being strong and without needs, we are not growing, and we are setting ourselves up for a very dangerous fall.Henry Cloud
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People with a style of denial and blaming are definitely on the list of unsafe people to avoid. 10.Henry Cloud