Exiting from any long-term relationship comes at great personal expense, which explains why so many people are understandably reluctant to endure the cost of severance. Beginnings and endings are always dramatic and occasionally traumatic. Youthful brio allows us to engage in transformation. As we age, we carefully weigh the spectacle of continuing enduring harrowing situations or seeking melodramatic renovation of our core being. Analysis of the respective cost benefit ratio, consideration of the known versus the unknown, can delay or permanently deter us from altering our environment, leading our persona to become more rigid as we mature. Transformations in life are disconcerting to people who resist change.Kilroy J. Oldster
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The Statement: "Exiting from any long-term relationship comes at great personal expense," is actually a misquote of a quote from John Keats. It was said in the 18th century and the line has been attributed to Keats wrongly for over 100 years. The original quote is "When we are parted by death, we lose all our fears and griefs in one moment, and enter into Eternity with a smile." The original meaning of this quote is quite different from the distorted meaning that people give to it today.
Source: Dead Toad Scrolls
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