Who we are is who we ACTUALLY are. It's never who we create in order for people to see. You might really hate who you actually are, so then you create a sub-genus type of yourself for other people to see. But that never changes who you are. The sub-genus type won't change your genus. The only way we change who we are is by looking at ourselves in the mirror long enough to make us vomit over our disgusting waywardness and long enough to fall in love with our strengths. But you can't just fall in love with your strengths. You also need to vomit over your hypocrisies and all of your other bullshit. And you can't just vomit, either. You also have to clean it up and embrace yourself afterwards. This is how you change your genus. C. Joybell C.
About This Quote

The idea is that one's self-concept is most often based on the expectations of others rather than one's own personal view. A person may be portrayed in the public eye with a set of traits that are very different than what he or she actually is. For example, one could claim to be liberal, yet act conservative in most situations. He may act liberal in order to fit in with his peers, but he still remains conservative in his personal life.

This behavior is part of the concept of socialization, which includes the idea that people are influenced by their environment and learn what they should do based on what they see in others. This view is similar to Freud's psychoanalytic theory of personality development, which holds that people often project their own desires onto others in order to create a more socially acceptable image for themselves.

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