Every time she went home she found herself being criticized. She was accused of being "too attached to her family, " which was condemned as a "bourgeois habit, " and had to see less and less of her own mother.

Jung Chang
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Criticism is quite common in most families. While most people will feel uncomfortable with criticism, most can accept it when they are children. However, when people grow up and become parents the criticism can be too much to handle. When a child criticizes their parents, it is okay for them to hear what they’ve said.

However, when the child becomes an adult and criticizes their own parents, society does not condone it. Children should be taught to respect their elders and to maintain healthy relationships with their family members.

Source: Wild Swans: Three Daughters Of China

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