Ecologist Paul Ehrlich stressed that people who hold opposing opinions need to engage in open discussion with well-reasoned dissent. Positions should be questioned and criticized, not the people who hold them. Personal attacks preclude open discussion because, once someone is put on the defensive, fruitful exchanges are impossible, at least for the moment. Marc Bekoff
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If you are in disagreement with someone, it’s important to speak your mind politely. You should never dismiss another person’s viewpoint, because if you do they will not listen to you. Instead, you should explain why you feel the way you do, and explain how you came to your conclusion. It is the best way to make sure that your opinion is heard.

By speaking politely you give the other person a chance to respond in kind. This will help create an atmosphere of mutual respect between both parties.

Source: Why Dogs Hump And Bees Get Depressed: The Fascinating Science Of Animal Intelligence, Emotions, Friendship, And Conservation

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