But I am, personally, not a gambler. I wouldn’t spend £1 on the lottery, let alone take a punt on a pregnancy. The stakes are far, far too high. I can’t agree with a society that would force me to bet on how much I could love under duress. Caitlin Moran
About This Quote

We all like to think that we are in control of our own destiny. That we can make choices for ourselves that will lead us to happiness or fulfillment. When someone bet that they could not love someone else under the threat of being trapped forever in an unhappy marriage, that person was forced into a situation where they were forced to choose between self-interest and true love. The implication being that if they chose the former, then their love would have been false, while if they chose the latter, then their love would have been authentic.

This is a thought experiment about how people might handle a certain kind of life event. The story is a warning against making choices on the basis of self-interest when you don’t really have control over the outcome. Instead, you should be willing to take a chance on love because if you get it wrong, at least it won’t be for eternity.

Source: How To Be A Woman

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