Isn't it funny how the memories you cherish before a breakup can become your worst enemies afterwards? The thoughts you loved to think about, the memories you wanted to hold up to the light and view from every angle--it suddenly seems a lot safer to lock them in a box, far from the light of day and throw away the key. It's not an act of bitterness. It's an act if self-preservation. It's not always a bad idea to stay behind the window and look out at life instead, is it?. Ally Condie
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This quote is applicable for any couple to keep in mind. There are things one should not be afraid to say and to hear. Sometimes, people run away from the truth and do not realize that it is a part of life, a part of growing up. It happens to every person at some point in their lives. Here is an example:

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