Teach her that the idea of 'gender roles' is absolute nonsense. Do not ever tell her that she should or should not do something because she is a girl. 'Because you are a girl' is never reason for anything. Ever.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
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I believe that people should be allowed to do whatever they want as long as they aren't hurting anyone. It is a shame that we have come to a point where we feel that we have to do things a certain way because of our gender. We should be able to do whatever we want as long as it doesn't hurt others.

Source: Dear Ijeawele, Or A Feminist Manifesto In Fifteen Suggestions

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