34. Sexual contact between a boy and a girl is a progressive thing. In other words, the amount of touching and caressing and kissing that occurs in the early days tends to increase as they become more familiar and at ease with one another. Likewise, the amount of contact necessary to excite one another increases day by day, leading in many cases to an ultimate act of sin and its inevitable consequence. This progression must be consciously resisted by Christian young people who want to serve God and live by His standards. They can resist this trend by placing deliberate controls on the physical aspect of their relationship, right from the first date. James C. Dobson
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One of the biggest mistakes a young person can make is to engage in sexual activity between themselves and a member of the opposite sex without first being married. Doing so creates serious obstacles for them in the future. First of all, their intimate experience with another person will be tarnished by the fact that they were not married to that person. Secondly, there is no spiritual benefit to having premarital sexual relationship.

It does not lead to marriage; it only leads to sin.

Source: Life On The Edge: The Next Generations Guide To A Meaningful Future

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