[Friendship] It was two people who remained together, day after day, bound not by sex or physical attraction or money or children or property, but only by the shared agreement to keep going, the mutual dedication to a union that could never be codified. Friendship was witnessing another's slow drip of miseries, and long bouts of boredom, and occasional triumphs. It was feeling honored by the privilege of getting to be present for another person's most dismal moments, and knowing that you could be dismal around him in return. Hanya Yanagihara
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Friendship is when you get to see your friend in his worst times and when the two of you can share in his triumphs. When two people are friends, they can be honest with each other, even if that honesty includes words that could hurt the other person’s feelings. Friendship is something that cannot be bought or sold. It is there when you need it, even when it isn’t much fun. And when you’re through with it, it still remains.

Source: A Little Life

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