I am constantly mystified by what John ends up remembering… I just don’t understand why he’s able to hang on to information like that, while so many other more important memories evaporate. Then again, I suppose so much of what stays with us is often insignificant. The memories we take to the ends of our lives have no real rhyme or reason, especially when you think of the endless things that you do over the course of a day, a week, a month, a year, a lifetime. All the cups of coffee, hand-washings, changes of clothes, lunches, goings to the bathroom, headaches, naps, walks to school, trips to the grocery store, conversations about the weather–all the things so unimportant they should be immediately forgotten. Yet they aren’t. I often think of the Chinese red bathrobe I had when I was twenty-seven years old; the sound of our first cat Charlie’s feet on the linoleum of our old house; the hot rarefied air around aluminum pot the moment before the kernels of popcorn burst open. I think of these things as often as I think about getting married or giving birth or the end of the Second World War. What is truly amazing is that before you know it, sixty years go by and you can remember maybe eight or nine important events, along with a thousand meaningless ones. How can that be? You want to think there’s a pattern to it all because it makes you feel better, gives you some sense of a reason why we’re here, but there really isn’t any. People look for God in these patterns, these reasons, but only because they don’t know where else to look. Things happen to us: some of it important, most of it not, and a little of it stays with us till the end. What stays after that? I’ll be damned if I know.(pp.174-175) . Michael Zadoorian
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The ultimate meaning in life comes when you realize that there is no meaning. Meaning is in the mind not in the thing. When you are young you need something to live for. For example, in my case I used to think that I would be a writer when I grew up, but when I was twenty something happened and my whole world changed.

One day, I was so depressed by the fact that I had wasted half of my life, I decided to read everything that had ever been written on depression. While reading one of the books I came across the following quotation which says: "The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." The quotation might have been written by William Shakespeare or another famous English playwright. The quote suggests that life is filled with triumphs even though it also contains defeats.

It suggests that our lives are like a rollercoaster ride where our highs are higher than our lows. This might be true because no matter how high or low things get, we should keep trying to get up again.

Source: The Leisure Seeker

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