But these were days of self-fulfillment, where settling for something that was not quite your first choice of a life seemed weak-willed and ignoble. Somewhere, surrendering to what seemed to be your fate had changed from being dignified to being a sign of your own cowardice.

Hanya Yanagihara
About This Quote

When we think about the issues we face in life, we often think about how we can solve them. For example, if we come across a situation where we feel we are being taken advantage of, we immediately start thinking of ways to get out of it without giving in. The problem is that this way of thinking is not good enough. Instead, the thing that will allow us to rise above this situation is simply to let it be. We must come to accept that our struggle is over and that the best thing to do is let go and move on.

Source: A Little Life

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