It's not that you should never love something so much that it can control you. It's that you need to love something that much so you can never be controlled. It's not a weakness. It's your best strength.

Patrick Ness
About This Quote

As a human, we have a tendency to do things that makes us feel good. When we love something, we often behave in a way that allows us to keep loving it. We might stop doing the things that hurt us so much if it means keeping the good feelings of love. But, there is a problem with this approach.

Love can be a dangerous thing if you let it control you. When it comes to love, it's better to be controlled by your feelings than by your feelings of love.

Source: The Ask And The Answer

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