Sharon SalzbergOnly when we start to distinguish reality from fantasy that we can humbly, with eyes wide open, forge loving and sustainable connections with others.
About This Quote
If you are stuck in the world of fantasy, you aren’t seeing the world for what it is. You are leading a life that isn’t real, because you are being foolish. How often have you heard people say things like, “I’m just playing around,” or “It was just a joke.” This is the kind of behavior that leads to identity problems and self-esteem issues. The truth is that there are no “just jokes.” You can’t be serious all of the time.
There are times when someone is trying to make a point, even if it comes across as silly or childish. The truth is that no one likes to be ridiculed. But there are times when it is okay for someone to be silly or childish.
Just remember that when you are being silly or childish, you are probably not being completely serious.
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