Bathsheba loved Troy in the way that only self-reliant women love when they abandon their self-reliance. When a strong woman recklessly throws away her strength she is worse than a weak woman who has never any strength to throw away. One source of her inadequacy is the novelty of the occasion. She has never had practice in making the best of such a condition. Weakness is doubly weak by being new. Thomas Hardy
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Bathsheba was a beautiful woman. She was not only beautiful but she had great morals and faithfulness to her husband's marriage. Troy, on the other hand, was a young man who had never been married before. He lived life to the fullest by courting Bathsheba for all he could get.

Bathsheba fell in love with Troy, but this was her first time to be in love. She did not know how to handle it so she kept herself busy, trying to hide her feelings for the young man. When Troy became aware of her feelings he tried his best to woo her away from her husband, but she only got stronger with love for him.

She let herself fall into his arms and trust that he would take care of her.

Source: Far From The Madding Crowd

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