So many events and moments that seemed insignificant add up. I remember how for the last Valentine´s Day, N gave flowers but no card. In restaurants, he looked off into the middle distance while my hand would creep across the table to hold his. He would always let go first. I realize I can´t remember his last spontaneous gesture of affection. Suzanne Finnamore
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People often approach the idea of ´the last time´ in life in different ways. Some people ´remember´ the most important moments in their lives with great fondness, while others wish they could forget the pain. However, it is impossible to avoid all memories; they are all part of our lives. The fact that N had lost touch with his own unique personality made me think he had forgotten me completely. But, I realized that our last Valentine’s Day showed that my memory is not simply an accurate reflection of the past, but it is an important part of my life.

Source: Split: A Memoir Of Divorce

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