Elizabeth GilbertYou can measure the happiness of a marriage by the number of scars that each partner carries on their tongues, earned from years of biting back angry words.
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The story that follows is about the life of an amazing couple. This couple was so in love that they shared everything, even their emotions. Eventually, the man began to get jealous of the beautiful woman he loved because she was constantly happy while he was always in a bad mood. One day, while they were having dinner together, the woman’s husband asked her how she could be so happy when he was always so angry. Instead of telling him how wonderful she thought he was, she said, "You can measure the happiness of a marriage by the number of scars each partner carries on their tongues, earned from years of biting back angry words."
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