It's so curious: one can resist tears and 'behave' very well in the hardest hours of grief. But then someone makes you a friendly sign behind a window, or one notices that a flower that was in bud only yesterday has suddenly blossomed, or a letter slips from a drawer... and everything collapses. Colette
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The quote, "It's so curious: one can resist tears and 'behave' very well in the hardest hours of grief. But then someone makes you a friendly sign behind a window, or one notices that a flower that was in bud only yesterday has suddenly blossomed, or a letter slips from a drawer...", is a famous saying by Sigmund Freud. It is taken from his book Dostoyevsky and Parricide. In it, he talked about how some people who have suffered a great loss can be quite unaffected by it.

They might not show any outward signs of their grief, but they sometimes can feel it. Sometimes those feelings come from those around them. This poem captures those feelings.

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