People always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other’s personalities. Who wouldn’t? Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person. But that’s not the clever trick. The really clever trick is this: Can you accept the flaws? Can you look at your partner’s faults honestly and say, ‘I can work around that. I can make something out of it.’? Because the good stuff is always going to be there, and it’s always going to pretty and sparkly, but the crap underneath can ruin you. Elizabeth Gilbert
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The people we love the most often have the most flaws and imperfections. We tend to focus on the good and overlook the bad. So, we tend to think that everything is perfect and we should be happy. But the truth is, there will always be flaws, and if you can accept them and look at them honestly, you can build something out of them. If you find a flaw in your relationship, work around it, get past it and get to know each other better.

Source: Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace With Marriage

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