It's rather disconcerting to sit around a table in a critique of someone else's work, only to realize that the antagonist in the story is none other than yourself, and no one present thinks you're a very likable character.

Michelle Richmond
About This Quote

This quote, one of the most famous in all of literature, is a warning against our tendency to criticize ourselves. We do that all the time, and we don't even realize it. We look at others and view them as critical and negative, while we see ourselves as positive and idealistic. The fact is, we're all both critic and antagonist at times, and we aren't always aware of it. The way to become aware of this tendency is to pay attention to what we say about other people.

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